Sexuality ... How much is hidden in this word. After interviewing my friends, I came to the conclusion that most people associate it with flame, passion, secret, burning desire and a cocktail of fantasies. "You are the sexiest in the world!" - perhaps the best compliment a man can say to a woman, because it's sexy means you're welcome. And if a man wants a woman, then he is ready for much for the sake of his beloved. Is not that what we sometimes miss, dear ladies? Feel like a goddess in the eyes of men.
First, you need to clearly understand what sexuality is. The dictionary gives the definition: "Sexuality is the way through which we experience and express ourselves as a person of a certain gender." Sexuality is not hidden somewhere in a separate, isolated part of our brain. Other aspects of life, in all their diversity, also find their place in it.
I would like to add that sexuality is a game, a fine line between frankness and prohibition. If you do not open yourself to the world, you are a hermit, if there are many franknesses, you are a sinner; so it is necessary to choose a path that separates from the hermit, but does not turn into a sinner.
The first step on the road to sexuality is a psychological attitude. Only a confident woman can be sexy (if you have a shy modest woman who, in her energy, is not inferior to the composition of "Via Gry", then, most likely, this is a skillful game). If the self-esteem is disorder, then we will raise.
First of all, sort out your own thoughts about yourself. Then go to the opinion of others about you: remember everything - and compliments, and remarks. Criticism can not be treated with hostility, it gives us food for thought and opens the way to self-improvement. The main ideas are better, of course, to write down, because on paper the thoughts look more clearly and perfectly. The second idea, which for a time should occupy your mind: "What do I lack to create a sexual image?" (Briefly and on the items.)
Example: "I have a different figure, but my stomach is not quite flat."
Reaction: "Swing the press every day and perform a special complex for this group of muscles."
Thus, we are struggling with shortcomings, we focus on virtues and increase self-esteem. "Since I spent so much time on myself, there must be changes!" - and in the eyes begins to appear shine. In this case, I can congratulate you on the fact that you took the first and most difficult step on the road to sexuality. Additional bonuses, which you quickly get used to, will be the attention of men - something that can not be weaned at any age.
There are, however, defects that we can not correct, and therefore we must accept ourselves as we are. And do not be discouraged; Small shortcomings can turn into virtues and make you unusually charming. Only an imperfect woman can be sexual, remember this!
One more tip: every day you start by saying that you are the most-very, and in the near future the reflection in the mirror will really change. Do you remember the heroine of Irina Muravieva in the film "The most charming and attractive"? So, she was engaged in such a self-suggestion every day. And now remember the finale and the three men whose hearts she won. A decent result.
To psychological weapons, I would still carry mystery. Sexual woman is always mysterious. She does not open the man completely, forcing him to think out the meaning of the words spoken or about a playful, indecent gesture. She does not say directly, but tactfully hints at her plans and intentions, she leaves her answer to an inappropriate question, looks silently or, conversely, says something important. Riddles, however, like everything else, should also be in moderation. If you smile only the whole evening, and instead of responding with interjections, then you are unlikely to be invited to a second date.
Sexuality is a game, so play and try to win.