Many people think about how to behave with a person who is bored with their conversations? Especially if it's not a friend, but a classmate or an employee who needs to be tolerated every day, along with his conversations. When tired of such a character, it is quite difficult for him to explain the reason for his indignation. The fact is that those who get their conversations, often, do not consider themselves to be too talkative at all. Such a person can not even think that someone has bothered. If a friend at least tries to listen to your words and behave differently, the classmate and colleague will most likely miss this. But, you really need him to stop acting like this.
In fact, it's very difficult to deal with such people. The fact is, a man of this kind of mind and character, surprisingly unobservant. You can shout at him, call him names, get angry, and he, at best, is only outraged, and the next day, he will start telling you something again, giving out a thousand words a minute. Therefore, with such people it is not necessary to fight with cries and resentments. Remember that a talkative person just does not hear you. For such as he, opponents and interlocutors, this is not necessary. They just need to think that someone is listening to them, while they are not at all able to listen to the opinions of others. And it's not that they do not want to change theirs. Im just not interested. They are keen on the process of conversation, and, more precisely, a lot of leg, and everything else does not concern them.
Therefore, if you understand that his five minutes of conversation, and you just go and stick this person's mouth with an adhesive tape, try to confuse him. In fact, it is difficult, but possible. Simply, it is necessary to somehow pinch the chatterbox very thinly, or to ask him a question, to which he has no answer. In that case, the chatterbox should think about it. And maybe even a little offended. Boltunov is very angry when they are interrupted in mid-sentence, and they can not continue the speech, because they really do not know what to say.
But, remember that in an hour you will hear chatter again. With such people it is impossible to fight at all. They do not care what you think about them, that you are angry that you are ready to literally kill. Therefore, you just need to learn to abstract. Treat these conversations as background, as a buzzing fan or annoying fly. Agree, initially, such sounds are annoying, but, in time, you get used to them and stop noticing. Even if the jackhammer is constantly knocking next to you, sooner or later you will realize that you do not pay attention to whether there is a sound from it or not. Of course, chatterbox sometimes, it is much worse than any jackhammer, but, nevertheless, you can get used to it. Just do not react and do not concentrate on this sound. If he asks questions, still do not pay attention. Believe me, it does not matter to whom to ask, simply, you are the first one to fall in the field of vision. If you do not say anything, then in a minute he will stick to someone else. Of course, the chatterbox in the team is not a gift at all. But, if he is considered to be a valuable employee or to study with you, then you are not going anywhere from him. Therefore, just try not to notice it. At first, it will be difficult for you, but, in time, you will get used to this background noise and will not pay as much attention as you did before.
The situation with gossips is quite different. This category of talkative people, on the contrary, wants to be reacted and very offended when they talk with them. Of course, this can be used. Therefore, if such a person starts telling you another story that you absolutely do not want to listen to, blatantly ignore him, showing you that you do not care. Do not respond to his shouting and questions. Soon, he will be offended and go to tell his gossip to someone else. But, remember that quarrels with such people are still dangerous, because they can dissolve gossip about you. So think about whether a gossip can hurt you, before you quarrel with him and openly ignore him. Sometimes, it's better to listen to someone's nonsense once than to find out about yourself such details, which literally make your hair stand on end. But the gossips are all able to decorate so that you will only be surprised when, where and how you could do what is now being told about you.
If you want to keep normal relations with the gossip, try to talk to him. Unlike the chatterboxes, these people still know how to listen, because that's how they collect information. Therefore, when the gossip once again starts telling you something, simply, honestly and sincerely explain to him that you do not want to discuss this person and this topic, because you are not interested, and offer to talk about something else. Only in no case be rude and do not say that you are not interested in gossip. The fact is that this person does not consider himself to be that way and must be offended, and then he will tell you what a bad and evil person you are. It's best to just calmly explain that you do not like to talk about other people, because you have enough problems of your own. In addition, there are many interesting topics to which you can talk and discuss. Ask the gossiper, at least, to discuss some book or film and do not let him go back to gossip. If you do it all the time, it's possible that he will stop coming to you and tell you more rumors. But, anyway, always try to calmly react to such people and just do not pay attention to them. Believe - your nerves are not worth it, take care of them and do not notice your incessant irritants.