Perhaps all these intimate "lotions", vaginal balls, the development of vaginal muscles, the study of Kamasutra - just a waste of time? Suddenly, men are not bad at all, and the rest is just "over the drum"? Of course, this is not so! You will never get the status of the best mistress, if you ignore it all. But it is also not necessary to go to extremes. Here the measure and skill is important. There are six basic rules of how to become your best mistress for your man.
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Rule number 1. Be active in sex Rule # 2. Do not be afraid to experiment. Rule # 3. Say straight what you want in sex. Rule # 4. Learn to say no. Rule # 5. Do not be shy about your body. Rule # 6. Be able to have sex not just loveRule number 1. Being active in sex
It is proved that men do not care at all about what was the true cause of our enthusiasm. The girl is actively working hips - it turns them on. At the same time, it does not matter whether it burns with passion or just does fitness. For example, I missed the last workout and now is catching up. Well and on health! A man will be happy in any case. The main thing is that the woman does not lie in the pose of a log with a look directed at the ceiling.
Believe me, with a simulator who knows how to skillfully stage an orgasm, a man will humble himself much more willingly than with a hacker, lazy to moan once more and roll his eyes in ecstasy. The latter he disqualifies immediately. This is the case when the male audience is deceived to be deceived, but the real woman-dream is happy to play along. After all, whatever one may say, and sex is a team game, it is always fresh and boring without a partner. In the end, there is the concept of auto-suggestion or the rule about the appetite that comes with eating. That is, if a woman is pretending for some time with passion and with feeling, you see - an orgasm and really will not keep you waiting. This, by the way, is a proven fact, and not an empty invention.
Rule number 2. Do not be afraid to experiment
Well, where without experiments! According to the men themselves, they perceive the bedroom as a scientific laboratory, in which daily (or rather, nightly) sexual discoveries are made. All of them are obsessed with the idea that only they are able to do something "such", which a woman can then remember for the rest of her life. Probably subconsciously the man is hurt that he failed to become the first, and so want to leave a trail after himself, remember something unusual. A man improvises, and the task of a real woman is not to interfere with him in this. Well, within reasonable limits, of course.
First, before saying something like: "Are you out of your mind ?!" find the strength to give the man the opportunity to satisfy the hunger of a sexual innovator. That is, elementary support the proposed venture. And secondly, encourage your beloved to say that he first thought of such an unexpected turn in a love game.
Rule number 3. Telling directly what you want in sex
Of course, it would be easier for everyone if the partners exchanged sex instructions in the bedroom. Like, here you are, my dear, a list of my erogenous zones - get acquainted. To you it is ridiculous, and any man with enthusiasm would support such idea. Men are bored to poke blindly, listen to our monotonous "Mmm" and try to understand, this is a sign of ecstasy or a measure of pain.
Most girls think: let everything go as it goes. And they are wrong. A real woman does not hesitate to conduct educational work before, after and during sex. Teaching a man to behave properly in bed can and is even necessary. There is only one secret - the magic word "yes". "Yes, beloved, tender", "Yes, my good, faster" - this is an example of such brief sex instructions. A man will be thankful for being straightforward, and you will get the desired pleasure. Will win both sides.
Rule No. 4. Learn to say "no"
Sacrifice is not always grateful. At least not in terms of sex. Men, if they are not violent maniacs, themselves will not want to force a woman to something she does not want. But for this, they need to know when she is really against. Believe me, it's better to behave right in bed with a man at once, saying "no" than then he will suffer under your reproachful look, saying, look what you did to me.
Your "no" will not mean that you are against sex in principle, but only against certain manifestations of it. The most hard and unpleasant to you. A woman, if she is really trying to create something unbecoming, has the right and even must resist. And, rejecting the scenario proposed by a man, you can always offer him your own.
Rule number 5. Do not be shy about your body
The main erogenous zone of any man are the eyes. More precisely - the hypothalamus, which draws in the male brain various frivolous pictures (that's where the constant thoughts about sex). Any man is a 100% visual. They can watch for hours on porn, hang in a strip club and they hate sex under the blanket in the dark. This blind copulation is extremely annoying.
It seems to women that a man will be meticulously looking at it, assessing it, looking for pimples on the pope. All this is not so. Men have a different type of thinking. They are only concerned with the physics of the moment. Therefore, if you want to know how to behave in bed with a man, remember: at the most crucial moment he wants to see you all, see your and your bodies in the matter. And if you do not give such an opportunity, a man will simply close his eyes and begin to imagine anyone, and at the most daring foreshortenings.
Rule number 6. Be able to have sex, not just love
Men are not at all devoid of romance, but sometimes they do not want to bother about the intimate atmosphere, aromas, music and long foreplay. Sometimes they just want sex. Primitive zoological sex. And a real woman from time to time allows you to use yourself as a sex simulator. According to the men themselves, in such moments, their satisfaction with sex is simply off scale. They 100% feel their "I'm a Man". This fact is already turning them on. By the way, many women also like fast sex, so it's worth a try.