The sexual revolution has done its work, and now it is no longer shameful to talk about your passions in the intimate sphere. No one will be surprised by the talk about unconventional sexual orientation, various sexual perversions, which are now considered "rich in fantasy." In addition, the people were fed up with standard sex and began to actively practice other species, using for this body parts, not intended for sexual intercourse.
If you ask modern men about their preferences in bed, then the majority likes, oddly enough, anal sex. And those who did not practice dream about this. What is it that attracts the male population of this type of intimacy? Before answering this important question, it is worthwhile to understand what is generally meant by the "anal sex".
The word to sexologists
The term "anal sex" should be understood as sexual intercourse by introducing a dildo or male sexual organ in the back passage. Like other types of sex, this type is designed to receive a sexual satisfaction.
Previously, this phenomenon occurred only among single-pair pairs. Taboo on the occupation of such a variant of sex was associated with the depletion of the concept of sexuality as part of a love relationship. Over time, the boundaries have blurred, and now every third man actively "has behind" his partner.
As always, it has its own supporters and opponents. First of all, of course, we need to consider the reasons why men love anal sex. Among them, we should distinguish two main groups-physiological and psychological.
Physical sensations
In comparison with vaginal sex, the anal does not have many physiological advantages.
The first of these is that the narrow aperture is guaranteed to give the man a thrill. Women's vagina is prone to stretch over time, and after pregnancy it will more easily cover the male "scepter of power." Of course, this is all correctable with the help of special exercises for the internal muscles. But why wait until the woman is pumping vaginal muscles, if you can enter the back of a narrow passage?
Also, these two holes differ in the structure of the inner surface. For this reason, during the standard sex-time pleasure is only on the "entrance", and with the anal partner gets pleasure, just moving along the entire length of the rectum.
For someone, the undoubted advantage is that the ejaculation takes place inward, which allows you not to interrupt the sweet sensations at their peak. In addition, there is no risk that the partner after this will become pregnant.
It is clear that according to the physiological reasonal sex is not inferior to the classical. But still the love for this kind of pleasure is much deeper - at the psychological level.
Psychological view of the situation
The psychological component of the anal vidasseksa provides a man full of emotional and spiritual satisfaction.
If a woman decides to have anal sex, this is perceived by a man as a symbol of a higher level of trust. This is like a new stage in the relationship and an additional confirmation that the partner is ready much for the sake of his beloved.
But to decide on an anal experiment in bed on the part of a man is considered a sign of strong affection for a woman. He loves, and therefore every cell of her body.
In addition, some representatives of the male sex regard anal sex as power over a woman. Of course, in a certain city the man will be the dominant one in this case, but it is worth thinking about as a sadism, as sadism. Anal games can be painful for women, at the same time as for a partner it can be a pleasure to deliver to their "victim" pain. You need to be on the alert.
There is such a kind of males as "anal dandians". For them, it will be pleasant not so much the process itself, as much as persuasion of the woman to agree to such a very brave act. It is clear that as soon as the goal is achieved, another conquered female ass will lose value for them. And they will go looking for a new "beloved".
Another psychological reason lies in aesthetic pleasure. For men, the rear view also delivers visual pleasure.
Well, finally, anal sex - a good way to take an intimate life for those who have long been in a pair and satiated withstandard postures.
What will the enemy answer?
Lovers of anal sex in the modern world, of course, much more than those who are against it. But no less interesting and useful will be the information on why some still do not accept sexual intercourse.
Here, too, psychological reasons have played a role. People, so to speak, the "old temper" are unlikely to go to such love experiments. It is not surprising when a few years ago all this was considered a degeneration to the highest degree.
Negative side of anal sex is that the partner may experience unpleasant sensations during the entry. Of course, the female anal opening is one of the erogenous zones, but unlike the vagina it requires additional lubrication. Pain can be reduced with the help of special lubricants bought in a pharmacy, sex shop or an ordinary children's cream.
And, perhaps, the most unpleasant discovery for amateurs of anal entertainment will be the fact that the rectum, like any other internal environment of the body, is teeming with microbes and may well be a testing ground for spreading sexual diseases. All these moments can be avoided, using the elementary means of protection. But there are hardly any people who will exchange the opportunity to feel how the internal muscles of a woman grab their trunk, precautions in the form of pulling on a condom.
Particularly squeamish, too, is unlikely to "stick" in such a place, because the guarantee that the partner is properly prepared for channel copulation and the man will pull his "friend" clean, is minimal.
All these, even small, but not very pleasant, details can be avoided, following the following tips. And then lovers can appreciate the beauty of anal sex.
Forget about the problems. How?
Elementary rules of hygiene will protect yourself from ridiculous situations, especially girls who do not want their lover suddenly found traces of excrement on his farm. About how it is possible to clean the rectum, there are many articles on the Internet. The most common method with an enema with warm water. Trying to do everything with your own hands - the way is also not bad, but extremely strange and uncomfortable.
The second point is to take care of muzhchinam.Daby not deliver your favorite painful feelings, it is better to acquire a special lubricant beforehand. Above we mentioned where you can buy lubricants. In the conditionspreparedness is to use at least a regular cream.
And the last tip: do not forget about protection! Of course, if a couple has a long record of service, full trust and strong health on medical indicators, you can take such a risk. All the rest are strictly recommended to wear a condom.
Remember that excluding from the intimate life of small troubles, the partners will be able to truly appreciate the relationship in any of their manifestations and receive from this physical and spiritual satisfaction.