When studying the mysterious sign language during communication, we will begin a conversation with the movements of our head. So, the basic movements of the head, which most often give out a person's attitude to a particular situation, is an affirmative nod and a negative nod from one side to the other. Almost always nodding the head back and forth means "yes," and its movement from side to side expresses disagreement or categorical "no." This habit of expressing our consent or denial, we obviously gain, while still being children.
By the way, you probably have repeatedly suspected that your interlocutor, when communicating with you, expresses his verbal agreement, but in his heart, in fact, he protests against one or another of his statements. It's very easy to check. You need to pay attention to how a person says his "yes" and at this moment subconsciously, shakes his head a little, as if denying all of the above. Even if the voice sounds convincing, this gesture language tells us about the person's negative attitude toward the situation. So, you do not need to believe what has been said, and the best solution is if you clarify the question.
In general, in order to find out whether the interlocutor treats you with interest, pay attention to how he holds his head - straight or tilting it aside. In the first case, such a mysterious gesture indicates that your opponent is absolutely indifferent to you or this meeting, the conversation. The head is usually immobile in such a situation, only minor nods are made from time to time. Together with this, often used position, when the person is supported on one hand. If your interlocutor tilts his head a little to the left, it directly indicates that he was deeply interested. If you very often have to make public appearances before a mass audience, pay attention to whether there is a manifestation of such gestures among listeners. It is in this way that you can determine how much you are listened to, and your message is interesting to the audience of the mass recipient.
By the way, interesting fact is that with the help of an inclined head the girls often show their interest to the guy they are interested in. So you can safely say that it's not at all necessary to flirt, flirt and talk a lot before a nice guy. You just need to tilt your head slightly and the guy will notice what you are interested in.
In the case when they address directly to you, it is recommended to tilt your head in the side and from time to time to nod to it - so you can tune the interlocutor in a positive way and show him that you are serious about the topic you are discussing.
But if the person with whom you are talking, the head is lowered down - this is the first signal that you need to urgently change the course of the conversation itself. Just your opponent is uncomfortable or you hit something with his emotions, putting him in an unpleasant position.
Also the most popular gesture is a gesture with hands that are laid behind the head. This mysterious gesture always says that before you is a very self-confident person who has priorities over the others. But if a person also throws his foot on the leg in the form of the number "4", you know, this person can not simply be taken "with his bare hands". His main credo is to argue on any topic.
And now let's say a few words about the gestures when communicating, in which the hands are involved. By the way, according to the position of the palms, one can also understand how honest the person is with you. If a person speaks the truth, he usually fully or partially opens his palms to the interlocutor. If a person has something to hide, he will try in every possible way to hide his hands in his pockets, behind his back or cross them among themselves.
So, let's look at the most common gestures with your hands and find out what they mean. Hands touch the face. Most often this indicates that a person is not sincere with you. If a person rubs his hands, then such a gesture indicates that the interlocutor conveys in this way his positive expectation of something pleasant in this situation. If the hands are laid behind the back, this, in the first place, speaks of the fact that a person values his inner self very much. But the gesture, when the hands behind their back and lock themselves in the lock, says that the person is very upset and tries in every possible way to calm himself. Well, if a person has his arms crossed on his chest, this indicates that he does not agree with the statement, even if he does not show it in words. In this situation, you should try to find out the cause of this gesture and move the interlocutor to a more open pose. The simplest and most effective way to make a person open their hands will be if you give him an object (pen, paper) in his hands.
And now a few words about the legs, which also play an equally important role in showing the inner mood of a person. So, crossed legs also, as in the case with hands, say that a person protests or defends his opinion in this conversation.
If the interlocutor sits, having thrown a foot on a foot, also has embraced them hands, remember, that before you the person whom very difficultly in something to overpersuade. He is a very hard and harmful person. To conduct a conversation with him you need a special approach.
If you talk standing, pay attention to the position of the feet of the other person, or rather, how they are deployed. If they are deployed at right angles to yours, know that this person has a great disposition towards you and will support any of your ideas.
So we examined the basic gestures in communication. Remember that knowing the language of the body well, you can feel comfortable with any conversation and will be confident that you understand.