In fact, advice, how to behave correctly, when you are accused, and you are not guilty, are very simple. So, if you are accused of what you did not do, you first decided, so do it with malicious intent, or people really made a mistake. If you are accused not just wrongly, then you have to keep in mind that it's convenient for someone to make you guilty. How to act in this case? First, it is necessary to find out who is to blame for what happened. Only if you have conclusive evidence, you will be able to stand up to the accusers. Most likely, blaming someone who is not guilty, a person wants to protect themselves or specifically accuse someone. In fact, the severity of such a charge is very different. So jealous rivals can come who want to take your loved one from you, envious employees who are annoyed that the boss loves you more than others or competitors who need you to go broke. But, in any case, people begin to behave this way, setting your goal a moral or material destruction. How can you protect yourself from them and behave correctly in such a situation?
First, next to you there must always be reliable people who will be able to support and protect you in any situation. But, you must be really sure that these people will never betray you, and will not fight on two fronts. If you are trying to substitute and do it for more than one day, then one of your close friends could try, so to speak, "to get into enemy territory" and find out why they want to substitute you, and, also, to get some evidence. But, even if it is impossible to do this, close people should always confirm your words, of course, if they are true. Do not lie with a whole crowd, because, then, when everything is revealed, they will not believe not only you, but also your friends.
Often, only words can be used in a charge. And then, very important, be able to respond to words correctly. First, do not shout and start blaming this person for slander. In fact, he only wants this. If a person is brought to hysteria, he ceases to adequately think and argue his words. Therefore, when you are accused, do not immediately get angry, call a person and shout that you have been slandered. Instead, it's best to listen very carefully. In lies there are always places "sewn with white thread". If you notice them in time, then you can justify yourself with dignity. Therefore, in no case interrupt your accuser. Listen to it to the end, and only then start to draw any conclusions. If you know that he can not have any physical evidence to confirm your charge, then you can prove very easily and simply that you are not guilty of anything. But, for this you need to keep very calm and cold. If you start to get angry, stifle, lower your eyes and get nervous, people get the impression that you do this because you know about your fault and now, you try to hide it somehow, but you do not get anything done. Therefore, in any case, do not let yourself be nervous. Even if you just want to strangle the offender with your bare hands, never dare to show it. If a person sees that he has brought someone out of emotional balance, he will take advantage of this. Therefore, you should not allow this.
Also, you should never make excuses. When a person begins to talk glibly about what he was not and could not do anything like that, then his words also do not perceive as something real and truthful. In situations where you are purposefully accused, you need to use only arguments and irrefutable facts. As mentioned earlier, try to identify the weak spots in the accusation and refute them. This can be done in different ways: by putting forward your version, asking questions or somehow differently. Simply, you need to look at the situation, and, in no case, do not give vent to emotions. Remember that the prosecutor expects from you any reaction, but only not calm and full of self-confidence and in his righteousness. This behavior will definitely confuse him. If you also begin to expose, a person is completely lost and forgets about all the arguments that he had before. Therefore, always remember that it is most difficult to blame a person who knows that he is right, is not afraid of the accuser and does not allow himself to lose his peace.
If you were not specifically accused, then it's much easier to sort out the situation. In this case, people are much more disposed to listen to you and find the truth. But, in this case, you should not justify yourself. Simply, it is necessary to explain the situation, to prove why you could not do this and, if necessary, to find evidence that will confirm your non-participation in this or that case. Most likely, you will be given time to find a way to justify yourself and will adequately assess the situation, and not seek an opportunity to confirm your guilt.
In fact, in the life of every person there are cases when he is accused of what he did not do. Do not take it to heart. All people are prone to make mistakes and detractors also have everyone. If nobody hates you, you need to think about whether you live right. After all, emotions are not caused only by gray and uninteresting people. Therefore, such stories and accusations should not be perceived as an excuse to regard yourself as a bad person, but as a proof that you can call out such strong emotions from the enemies, therefore, you really live and do not exist.