Perhaps you do not know about this yet, but energy vampirism can be called the scourge of our world, it's actually a disease, and the disease that takes the scale of the epidemic. And there are people who, without knowing it, are vampires, they are fueled by the energy of weaker people, most often contacting those who are unwell. Sick people have a weakened field, through which not the kindest forces from outside can leak.
Answering the question: how to behave with an energy vampire, at first it is better to direct your efforts to determine - to what type of vampires this particular subject belongs. After all, energy vampires do not always become - sometimes they even are born, or rather, acquire the features of vampirism in early childhood. Such people usually do not suspect that they use the energy of other people in order to improve their own well-being, condition.
You can behave yourself with energy vampires in different ways, some of them do not even realize that they are giving someone problems and discomfort. They sincerely do not understand why, when they get sick, they just need to communicate with someone - and the state of health immediately gets better. At this time, their interlocutor becomes, on the contrary, worse, as he was attacked by a vampire. The same mechanism works at a time of great stress - when the energy vampire "rages and lashes", it is only he who needs to talk to someone - how stress goes to the background, anger subsides, passions are pacified. And all because he poured a negative on his interlocutor, and he took away his clean and quiet energy.
By the way, in the situation with such energy vampires, it is not always possible to directly absorb the energy of others to restore their own. Such a vampire can even just relax in nature - and everything will get better. Therefore, "unrecognized" energy vampires are not so terrible for others as those who knowingly come into contact with a weaker person, who takes all energy from him.
Leading vampires consciously need to be extremely careful, so as not to get caught on their hook and not fall victim to an attack. In principle, you can avoid such people, because they are easily recognizable. Surely among your acquaintances there are people who even at first sight create a sense of conflict and aggressively minded personalities? They do not even need to say anything - the surrounding people do not feel the most positive emotional atmosphere in the company of such a person. Here he is, most likely, and is an energy vampire.
An energetic vampire who knows that he is nourished by someone else's forces, and experiences this with incomparable pleasure, usually very scandalous, he even from the most insignificant occasion is able to fan such a fire that people involved in the scandal themselves do not understand it , will begin to give him a huge amount of his energy. This flow of fresh "air" for a vampire will serve as the best reward, and those who have lost this energy will have a disgusting state of health by the end of the day. And no wonder - because they sucked out all the vitality, and there is no way to restore them. But the energy vampire after such a storm will feel great - and all the surrounding will notice. The instigator of the quarrel will begin to smile sweetly at everyone and simply exude goodwill. Where does all this come from in man, how can this be overcome?
In fact, it has been proved that people become energy vampires from childhood. And most often - those who have not received enough motherly warmth and affection, a fatherly kind word. These are children who grew up in an atmosphere of constant dissatisfaction, bickering, quarrels, which absorbed the negative energy emanating from the environment. The time will come - and vampirism will manifest itself in all its glory, in response to the reproaches of parents, the child himself "will give a verbal surrender", raise his voice, wind up the storm and soak up the energy of his parents. Then he grows up, his aggression acquires global features and finds many ways to express.
In principle, we can all protect ourselves against the harmful influence of the energy vampire, if he is alone, it is much worse if there are a lot of them around you. For example, psychologists say that only an energy vampire can go to a rally or a demonstration, so if you do not want to be "sucked to the bone" - do not attend such events.
So, now let's talk about a line of behavior that will help protect you from the influence of energy vampires.
The first and most important rule is that you do not have to succumb to the provocation of an energy vampire. After all, he will in any case try to pod, to tease you, that between you a quarrel of the largest scale is fastened. Smile and think that you will not deliver him such pleasure. For all attacks, react calmly, you can even a little mockingly - and then the energy vampire himself will begin to give his energy in a fit of anger.
In addition, avoid direct eye-to-eye contact, since it is the vampire's eye that takes away your vitality. Better look yourself to something interesting on the sidelines, if the conversation with the energy vampire is inevitable. Admire the palm in the tub - green always acts soothingly on our nervous system.
Try to communicate less with eternally dissatisfied people who day and night are ready to complain about the fate of a villain who takes away their chances of being happy. Such people just want to take away your happiness. But those who really need help, they will never whine - they face with dignity another obstacle in their destiny, they smile in adversity and continue to give a positive attitude to others even when everything is very bad.
If communication with the energy vampire can not be avoided - when talking, you should cross your arms on your chest, close your feet, if you sit - and everything, your energy will be closed from outside influence.
You can build invisible barriers in a conversation - for example, imagine how you, a stone by a stone, build a wall between yourself and a vampire, or how you lock yourself up in a glass ball and conduct a conversation from behind the glass.
Well, if the attack did happen, you need to quickly restore your strength: take a contrast shower and drink herbal tea. Plus, of course, more positive emotions!