Man, I'm poor, but

How often we complain about fate. We accuse her of all her failures. May be enough? It's time to start a war with your addictions and succeed in life. Remember the simple rule - do not feel sorry for yourself. A woman who pities herself, immediately acquires a multi-ton anchor, guaranteeing her eternal misery.

People all the time feel sorry for themselves and thereby set themselves up for poverty, thinking that being rich is not "fate." One is crying that she was born a woman, another complains about her full figure, someone complains of growth, skin color, nationality. Grieve yourself and low paid work and a miserable existence you are provided.

The amount of money determines the success. Too often this formulation becomes decisive in our life. "I am a poor man, but if I had so much money, I would be happy." But this is the strongest error. Success in life is determined not in monetary units, but in happiness, which is or is, or not. And only a poor man is sure that having a certain amount in a bank will bring him happiness. In this case, even if you have a certain amount of money, a poor person will not be rich. It is necessary to remove the sign of equality between the concept of wealth and the amount of funds on the account. True wealth is the ability to make money, attract them, the ability to organize new types of business.

Another characteristic feature of poor people is the desire to receive immediately and everything, and, preferably, without much effort. Such people do not understand the obvious pattern - if you are settled in a solid company and you still have an average salary, then in a few years you will have much more if you try to achieve success, rather than get hung up on how much you will receive in a month. Poor people do not understand that it is necessary to invest in the future. And do not forget that there is a big difference in spending money - to take a disastrous credit for buying an expensive foreign car or a useful loan for business development.

Often we do not something that brings a sense of satisfaction, but what is needed. One can not stand quarterly reports - but none of his deputies can do it. Another woman hates cleaning, but no one wants to help her. The third causes a feeling of contempt for their work - but only so they can pay a loan to buy a car. The need to do "unpleasant" things leads to the fact that all these people are ready unconsciously to failure and misery. And meanwhile, it's enough to find positive sides in what we do, and the unloved occupation will be pleasant and satisfying. Because only in this case we can achieve something.

Savings are good only in reasonable limits, when it does not turn into greed. Everyone knows the saying: "Miserly pays twice." It is better to pay the real cost for a good thing, instead of buying a cheap thing - that's exactly what the rich do. Of course, to buy a thing at a discount or at a sale is more profitable, but do not make a cult out of it, become a greedy person.

In order not to be a poor loser, it is enough to follow the following principles. First, do not try to compare yourself with other people. And let your friend have more fans than you, and unlike your friends, you work on a summer vacation, remember - you're better. And the second - never, under any circumstances do not move away from your family. After all, people who are ashamed of their family rarely get rich. After all, it is the family that is the source of better internal support at all times.

So do not whine that you are poor, unhappy. Let around the rudeness, crime, corruption and discrimination - you're not a potential loser and you will not tolerate it. And you will always find a creative approach to resolve any unprofitable situation for you and you will come out of it as a winner !!!