Loving people should not allow emotions to kill this great feeling - Love! No one is immune to conflicts on the ground, so everyone should know how to build relationships after quarreling with a loved one. We are the creators of our life, and if we want to destroy everything, we will easily do it, but it will be much more difficult to restore everything.
In order to avoid quarrels, any conflicts, it is necessary to find out the cause of all these misunderstandings, only then we will understand how to establish relations after a quarrel.
You must constantly talk heart to heart, you can not keep everything in yourself. After all, when it's bad for us, from any act of a loved one, we just need to tell him this, do not keep to ourselves. In no case is it possible that the insults we devoured, they just kill us and our relationship. Everyone, absolutely every person on this earth, should know that the final of any conflict must necessarily be a quick, not bringing trauma, reconciliation. It is reconciliation, not hiding grievances.
If you understand that a trifle, can lead your relationship to a quarrel, do not waste time on it and the most important thing is nerves.
But if you see that the reason is serious. Do not save in yourself, do not delay for tomorrow. Realizing that the conversation will lead you to a quarrel, understand for yourself what exactly you want from this conversation, from what you can refuse, what you can give in order to build relationships, what your partner should understand, what he must endure from this conflict.
And one must always remember - experiencing anger, you will not come to anything good. With anger, there will be no reconciliation. If this relationship is expensive for you, you do not want to lose your loved one. Do not say anything hot. Never remember past mistakes, do not compare with friends, co-workers, generally with anyone. Of course, everyone knows the weaknesses of their loved ones, but you never need to hit them, you may not be forgiven. Because a person will take it as a betrayal, because he trusts you, and you have used his confidence. Do not make mistakes.
The most blatant error of a lot of pairs is that during an argument they say "I'm leaving you," of course in such situations, many do not resist it. Because a quarrel, because a misunderstanding, because they feel either themselves, or you are to blame. After such statements, a person begins to think about parting as a solution to the conflict. Do not provoke if you want reconciliation.
Never put ultimatums, do not bully. It is unlikely that this will help reconciliation.
Do not offend, do not offend each other. Using insulting words about a loved one, you provoke him to rudeness, they will fly to you like a boomerang.
And never be afraid, do not hesitate to go first to your beloved. The main thing is to establish relations after the quarrel!
Having heard a bad word addressed to you, do not try to make it more painful, just say that it's very unpleasant for you to hear this from a loved one. Try to make it clear that you understand everything, but there is some but that does not suit you. Speak more such phrases as: "I respect you, I respect your point of view, but", "for us it would be better if it were." All these phrases say that you understand your interlocutor, you show that you are ready to talk, you are ready to solve the problem.
Remember, the sooner you reconcile, the sooner in your soul will calmness reign.
But if nothing helps, then the only solution to the problem is a compromise.
And never hesitate to take a step towards reconciliation. Otherwise you can lose your loved one.
The most important thing is to establish relations after a quarrel! For this, after reconciliation, it is necessary to consolidate the result. Help gifts, surprises, words about love, tenderness, you need to let the person know that he is very important to you and very much loved by you.
If the quarrel led to such a result that your partner does not hear not to see you do not want, try writing words about love in front of the house on asphalt, broadcast words about love and words of forgiveness on the radio, tell the whole country that your loved one means a lot in your life, praise it. And most importantly, do not be afraid, because the most important thing is to be together.
Never forget that it is very pleasant to be tolerated, and behind the truce is the passionate moment of happiness, real happiness, the minutes that show to loved ones, how much they love each other.
Talk to each other. Love, appreciate, respect each other. Understand, your partner is your reflection. Want to change it, change yourself.
Love each other and do not let yourself and your loved ones make mistakes that can lead to the loss of a loved one.