Female tricks, first date

So, the man of your dreams invited you to your first date. You are happy and convulsively thinking about what to wear, what hair and make-up to do, and most importantly - how to behave with him on a date. If emotions splash over the edge, then this only complicates matters. Today we will talk about how to behave on a first date and what kind of mistakes should be avoided. So, the theme of our article is "Women's tricks, the first date".

First, contrary to popular belief that a woman should be late for no more than 15 minutes, you should not be late at all - this is tactless, so you show that you do not respect either your own or someone else's time.

Dress not too frankly, do not go to extremes - your sexuality should be restrained. Men, of course, like deep neckline and short mini, but do not be too naked. You must be dressed in style. Exciting details of your outfit should not be screaming, but just a little seductive (for example, a blouse with an unbuttoned upper button). At the same time, avoid baggy clothes, unisex-style clothes, and do not go too far with accessories. Try to stop your choice on clothes with flowing lines, fitting feminine cut, from soft, flowing or velvety fabrics. Clothes should be beautiful and comfortable, try not to put on new things, as they can fail - shoes can rub, clothes - to restrain movements and so on.

Your appearance should be neat, make-up - moderate, and manicure and hair - in excellent condition. But avoid too long nails, they do not really like men. Use perfume with a seductive sweetish aroma. But the smell should be unobtrusive.

It's easy to communicate, but at the same time behave modestly. Smile, laugh, but do not overdo it - do not laugh at everything he said. Try to enjoy the communication, relax, because it's just a date, one of the episodes of your life. Tense man is a bad companion.

Be moderately cute, funny, intelligent, sexy. Do not be capricious, complain about one thing or another - the restaurant, the waiters, the girlfriends, the life and so on. Men are repulsive. Be happy, joyful, communication should proceed in major keys.

Eat in moderation. You do not have to pounce on food, order too much, but all evening to chew a green salad, washing it with water, is also a bad idea. And then, and then - the extremes. To abuse alcoholic beverages is also not worth it - under their action you can do or say something that you can regret later.

Do to the man unobtrusive compliments - praise the restaurant, which he chose, his taste in clothes and so on. But do not show excessive interest in his person so that he does not think he has already conquered you. The other extreme is to show indifference. This is also bad. Stick to the golden mean.

In communication, avoid unnecessary details of your past, for example, what diseases you had, with what kind of guys you met and stuff. In the beginning of relations this is superfluous. Do not try to tell at once about yourself all the fun, stay for him to some extent a mystery, which he wants to unravel. Do not tell him the details of his current personal life. Let while for it will be a secret, whether is at it contenders or not. Do not keep silent all the time, but do not tararat - communication should be measured. And the topics for conversation should be interesting to both of you.

Do not be too curious and do not try to find out all about him on the first date. Who will like this? Do not ask about his wealth, family problems and other very personal things that are not spoken on the first date. Everything has its time. And asking about something, be delicate, and think before you ask.

Show that you are self-confident and self-sufficient person. Avoid whining, self-criticism - do not tell him that you need to lose a couple of extra pounds, etc. .. Perhaps he does not even notice them. In addition, men do not like women who do not like themselves, are not satisfied with themselves.

If necessary, be able to sympathize, be attentive to what the man says, show interest in him, show that you like to communicate with him. If he says do not interrupt, it's not beautiful in any way. Even if you are absolutely sure that he is mistaken in a certain matter, then all the same do not argue. The dispute is not the best thing on the first date. Do not constantly glance around, but you should not look at it all the time either. He may think that something is wrong with him, or that you are not attentive.

A sense of humor is wonderful. But do not be on the first date to make fun of the man himself, especially if the joke is rough. This is a sign of bad manners. Do not flirt with other males, otherwise you risk looking windy. Try to accidentally touch it. For example, touch your foot "accidentally" with his feet under the table, dance with him, do not be afraid to touch his hand and so on. Let him pay.

Try to finish the meeting first and not too late. After the man took you home, thank him warmly, but do not let him know that you are ready to give up everything and meet him again at his first call. He should see that you like him, but he is not a "navel of the Earth", that you have other activities, friends, etc.

After the date, do not go to his house. Of course, it's up to you whether you have sex after the first date, it all depends on the circumstances. But you should never make the impression of an amusement girl for one night. Most often, a woman, having sexual intercourse, pursues certain motives - she wants to make an impression, hoping for the development of relations. But here everything can happen completely differently, it all depends on people and situations. It is better not to have sex on a first date, because according to statistics, relationships that began with sex, most often do not become serious. Enter a sexual relationship on a first date, only if you really really want it. And even in that case, do not immediately rush into the pool with your head - flirt, play, kiss with a man, seduce him, delay the moment, tease. A man must understand that not everything is so simple that you need to conquer. But even after sex, try not to lose your head.

Do not start calling him and do not bang their heads after a date. If nothing happens to him later, then do not make a global problem out of this. Be not like everyone else. Be unusual, play, improvise. Be different, but at the same time - yourself. Try to make a wonderful impression. Here they are, women's tricks, the first date - the most appropriate time to use them! Be happy!