First, start to perceive all men as potential friends and no more. Do not forget that men should always be divided into two categories. The principle of the first is that the guys know how to be friends with the girl, making friendships on the sublime pedestal of their worldview. They are true female friends. Unfortunately, such men are recognized as an endangered species and listed in the "red" book of human communication. The second type is the complete antipode to the first. These are men who view a girl solely as a sexual object, throwing away all possible attempts to be just a friend. Whichever of these categories of guys you are not surrounded by, in your communication the line must clearly line up, that you are not heterosexual beings, but equal. That is, your male friends should be perceived at the level of your subconscious, just like your girlfriends. If among the friends of men there are those who like you and do not want to lose contact with them, try to explain that apart from friendship you can not give them anything. Believe me, to whom you really care, he will understand you. And to maintain your communication will let go of your ardor and compromise. If a person stubbornly believes in his beliefs, try to limit his communication with him as far as possible. Do not forget the fact that one of your newly-made (and even old), so-called guy-errands, can at any moment, wake up with an obsession to win your heart. Therefore, in the men's company, if there is not a loved one nearby, talk as much as possible about him, tell him at a convenient opportunity, how well you are together, how you love him and what feelings he feels, in relation to you. By the way, specially for other men, from your everyday statute of behavior, once and for all delete such an innocuous word as "flirtation." Namely, this innocent prank, can break a whole mountain of firewood, with very unpleasant consequences for you. I understand that it is difficult. After all, we are all naturally playful creatures, especially if it concerns the male half. By this we always try to prove to ourselves our own perfection, originality, beauty. Our coquetry with representatives of the stronger sex was born before us. And to miss the opportunity to test your spell in action for us is equivalent to the fact that you have in your closet, for example, shoes from the last collection of "Calvin Klein", and you can not shoe them. And what to do? Difficult - but necessary. Flirt, or rather his absence from your side, is one of the advanced indicators, when answering the question of how to communicate with men, if you meet with a guy.
Never in communication with men do not bend the stick, especially if you are at this time meeting with a guy who is truly dear to you. Do not let hopes and promises in the form of wavering phrases "maybe", "someday", men, as it is not strange, believe us, and any words from our lips perceive as a hint or hope for a bright future with our participation - therefore try to communicate neutrally. If you are really happy with your boyfriend and you want to live with him "the lion's share" of your life, and most importantly, you are confident in him and you have more than just feelings. Never hold anybody near (as if about the "stock") - better let go on all four sides, do not torture a person. After all, somewhere his happiness goes, which he will meet. Well, and if, of course, you do not see any future with your current guy, then of course you also have cards in hand.
It's easier to be friends with guys you've known for a very long time, you can tell from childhood (classmates, fellow students, guys from the yard, so-called neighbors). Such friendship passed "both fire and water". These people have seen you in sorrow and in joy. Therefore, on the psychological subconscious, you perceive each other as brothers-sisters. There can be no problems, facets, "loud" sympathies. Here the spiritual level of relations dominates. You are for them and they are for you, as read, from crust to crust, a book. You know the shortcomings and positive qualities of each other and therefore nothing new except a friendly understanding from these people is not worth waiting for. Also here we can refer our former guys. Although it is very, very rare to keep at least some kind of relationship with your ex-boyfriend. Well, if you do it, still managed to (give a low bow personally from me) remember, these people for you will remain friends for a very long time and not the fact that you, will be on the list of invitees for his wedding, and he's on yours.
But the world is complicated, and unfortunately, not with all men you ever drove a ball in the yard as a child, wrote notes on libraries or tried to build relationships. So make friends, but see - do it more carefully. Although, there is another indicator of safe friendship. Find fellow-friends, in which you are sure that neither you as a girl, nor they like you as men, and the question of how to make friends will exhaust itself at the initial stage. Or, after all, make friends with guys such as herself, that is, who have normal full-fledged relationships, love and appreciate their second half. Only in this case you can consider your relationship as a true strong friendship. And you will not, during your tete-a-tete conversation, puzzle over one or another of his phrases, chaotically scrolling in your head: "What did he mean, and what does he mean by that, and does he not hint at me something that ... ».
Also remember that if your boyfriend is excessively jealous and your communication with other men does not give him any peace, think about it, and whether it's worth checking again the patience of a loved one. And finally, take note of the fact that: "about friendship, between a man and a woman, you can say a lot, and while undressing ...". Sometimes our lustful desires are much stronger than values such as friendship and loyalty.