1. Let's start with compliments. Having heard them in their address and realizing that they are insincere, i.e. not at the right address, be on your guard. If you turned a beautiful head of your head, remember that this is only a maneuver of your interlocutor. Now he threw himself to praise your disheveled hair, and very soon, with a sincere look, he would ask you to do a small favor. And to refuse something in fact somehow does not seem, like as it is not convenient ... Here you also have got to it on a hook.
How can you ensure that you do not allow yourself to be manipulated? Do not be embarrassed and blush when you hear flattering compliments to yourself. Just answer him the same, i.e. on the praises of the praises.
2. The feeling of pity. For women, compassion is inherent in nature. When they hear men tell stories about some whiny situations, they immediately try to help the setter. It does not even matter if this story has anything to do with this hero. But it's rare when a real man complains about his failures and problems, except in very rare cases, when a man just wants to speak out and just to ease his emotional experiences. Often such stories are invented and they are used to speculate with your feelings. Immediately following pleas for help - this can be money, weasel, the performance of any work. So how do you recognize the fact that a suitor tries to manipulate? Asking frequent questions, you will easily understand that much of the above does not fit together. And if you, interrupting him, could confuse him, then the result will be immediately visible - he will start to get confused in the story, to speak out of place. Immediately after such a story comes a request. And you, slowly, think it over and conclude that this is just a manipulation, too, use his method and cry too, so he will pity you, because he is a representative of the stronger sex.
3. In such situations, you need to make a decision very quickly. And if they saw that the situation was extraordinary and understood the deliberate haste on the part of the man, this is a sure sign that this is a manipulation, that's all. How can such a situation fail? Take time to think about and react to his irritation. Depart for some time somewhere, well, at least in the room.
4. The lions. Men, and this is a fact, is very unintelligently lying. And if a man plays you with lies, it will be enough to ask a few questions with confidence in a tone, so that it becomes clear to him that you have already guessed all about it. In doing so, try to make sure that these questions are answered in a row, do not give him the opportunity to insert answers. In this situation he becomes nervous and gives himself away.
5.Some use this trick, how to translate the conversation into another topic in those cases where it is obvious that your story is not interesting to him. And to speak on this topic to the man is not interesting, and therefore he begins to cling to the words that you have said with an oddly expressed word to go on to another topic of conversation. Such a tactic on the part of a man allows you to be more attentive and to follow your conversation in order to return to the previous topic.
6. If you are trying to blame a man for something, he does not justify himself, and he does not take actions that would somehow resolve this situation. On the contrary, he begins to try to blame you. Recollecting the unpleasant facts from your life begins, and then it turns out that it's not him, but you need to take an attempt to justify yourself. So how do you make it so that you are not manipulated? One should never make excuses. Here it was, and it was. And at this point, the conversation is quite different. In the future, remember once and for all - do not tell a lot about yourself to such vile comrades.
7. The breakdown of relations as a threat? As a rule, women are more emotional and obtrusive to their partners. And the fact that a woman is afraid of being a drunkard, makes it possible for such men, with threats, to part from everything that she wants. In case you are blackmailed in this way, try to become self-sufficient - so you will deprive your partner of the opportunity to manipulate you, keeping it hooked in this way. On the contrary, he will try to keep the union in every possible way, so as not to lose you. Believe in yourself. Arrange more often demonstrations that you like other men - it's a sobering of your partner.
8. Does the man try to deprive you of your surroundings? Criticizing and talking about your friends and relatives, makes attempts to ensure that you, without having your own environment, did not have the opportunity to consult with someone or tell about what is happening in your life. In such situations, as a rule, a woman is easy to manipulate. You should not succumb to this and break off relationships with loved ones.
9. If a man does not want to do what you ask him to do, and if he does it, then, as they say, just get rid of ... What he has done, and even poorly, you will have to remake yourself. In the future, of course, you will not ask him to help you, just do it yourself. But it will be better if you do not try this trick and you will have to redo something with which he failed.
10. If a man intentionally procrastinates his time in carrying out your assignment, one thing is clear-he is waiting for criticism from you for this, in order to use this opportunity to say that he will not do anything in the future. Ends with the fact that he leaves, slamming the door. If this situation is created, do not try to stop it. Do not criticize. Just cheer him up with the words "what a good boy you have!". This will help you to achieve from him both the speed and quality of the matter that he was entrusted to him.
11. The easiest and most common tool for manipulation is money. The man, spending you some small money, tries to bring the situation to him in order to get from you a bigger reward and has to reproach him for reproaches. He resorts to blackmail, threatening to end his relationship with you. Unforgettable that taking gifts from a man, you are thereby getting dependent on him and trying to repay a return gift, only more expensive. If a man knows you little, do not take expensive gifts from him, for anyone, even the smallest reproach on his part, will put you in an awkward position. If you are confident in your chosen one, then the situation, naturally, allows you to behave differently. But in any case, get a job and do everything to gain financial independence. Believe me, you will be much more comfortable with this status.