For this unshakable feeling, she is ready for much, including intimacy. And the opposite sex, as he should, needs fundamentally different - he is looking for physical pleasure in a relationship with a woman, for which he is ready to pay with feigned love. There are, of course, exceptions, when a man and a woman change places: she pursues sexual pleasure, and he, tired of promiscuous connections, longs for persistence, long-term relationships and emotional return. Many women dream to be with such a man. But in order to make it out of the general mass of lovers of sex alone, you need to understand how in the behavior of men to see the need for a long connection.
Distinctive actions, if a man wants only sex.
The hardest thing to see is a woman fascinated by him. But she, having analyzed the behavior of such a partner, can in time stop the development of feelings towards him in his heart. The main feature of a sexually interested man is the ability to please his partner. His experience of dealing with a fragile sex literally puts in his hand the threads of managing women's emotions. Such a man seems to be a longtime acquaintance after a few minutes of conversation. And he can charm not only women of his age, but also men who are present in the company, and representatives of the older generation, and especially - children.
The behavior of a man who wants only sex, literally perfected in the skill to say the right complement. A woman loves ears and these are men who crave only one-off night entertainment, they know perfectly. Like many who dream of a permanent relationship. Only in contrast to the latter, lovers of indiscriminate intimas also know how to use this knowledge. Composition of such a man is easy to distinguish from a sincere statement of a pleasant fact about a companion: an affectionate remark will equally please both the concrete today's listener and any of her contemporaries present nearby. There is no such complement in the complement of such a man, a clear addressee. They are universal, but very effective, thoughtful and elegant.
Another regularity.
Further, in the actions of a man who wants only sex, one can see another indispensable regularity: he hardly tells the companion about himself and his family. But at the same time he is an unusually attentive and tactful listener. Such a man will never interrupt a long tirade of a tempted victim about difficulties at work, at the university or in relations with parents. With a sympathetic glance, he will listen to her story, without being distracted even by the call of his own mobile phone. True, the very next day he would already forget about everything that the trusting companion told him. If sex with her is not so impressed by him, to long for a repeat. Then he will very carefully restore the memory of her story and try to fetch out of him a maximum of factors that motivate the woman.
Another clear sign of a man who is only interested in a one-time intimacy is stories about long-term plans in the relationship between him and his companion. Such men are very fond of telling everyone about the desire to find the very princess with whom he can get rid of the numerous fears and feelings that supposedly enveloped his heart with a wall of ice. According to the stories of such a man, a sad picture of his difficult past inevitably emerges: the first girl betrayed him, the love of his life betrayed him, he first humiliated him before everyone, his parents beat him right in front of his friends. Many sad stories are ready to come up with such men to pity the woman and persuade her to a comforting intimacy. And it does not matter what from what he has just told, it really turns out that the very fact that he uses his sad experience in order to get what he wants should already alert the woman.
Female confusion.
There is an opinion that a man who only wants sex will not ask the girl about her plans for the upcoming weekend or for the coming New Year. The reason for this delusion is not lacking: indeed, such a partner is not interested in the future of the one whom he will be able to seduce already in the next evening. However, we must not forget that such a man is interested in the fact that his present passion about the lack of this interest is not guessed. He was not born a heartthrob, he became it - after a series of mistakes and the failures provoked by them. The main difference of such a man from a fan of long, real, full feelings of relations is that he reacted to the process of communication with a woman for various reasons, as a training course. Being released from the halo of emotions, dense fog covering any relationship between the sexes, a sex lover will very skillfully manipulate the mood of his companion until he achieves the desired - intimacy. After which she will become for him only another victory - a passed test, of which beautiful memories remain, but the man of meaning does not see return to him.
Many women believe that a man who wants to get sex only is any member of the stronger sex who has not yet been met by the same - the only one who can tame him. Therefore, even seeing the obvious signs of such a man, many of their companions turn to relations with them only in order to be the same. Provided that such a woman will be able to reject emotions, fears and jealousy from herself, a game between such partners can bring untold pleasure to both. True, it will be exhausting and tedious. But extremely interesting and not devoid of excitement. But only at the moment when a man feels that emotions are born in a partner, he will escape in a traditional way: the ability to disappear forever and in an unknown direction is one of the special abilities of such smoothies.