How to confess love to parents

"The parental home, the beginning has begun, you in the life of my reliable mooring ..." These simple words conceal a deep truth: people close to us by blood are the most reliable protection and support in difficult moments of life. And for reasons unknown to us, it is to parents that we forget to talk about love, and in fact sometimes such recognition helps to establish relations ...

• Firstly , the main thing is to remember that to express your feelings you do not need an occasion. Yes, not everyone can say openly "I love you!". This declaration of love causes some embarrassment and childish shyness. But you can make it at ease with compliments.

For example, when the grandmother brags about freshly baked pancakes, we advise not simply, gobbling them one by one, mumbling in response, but boldly saying: "How I love my grandmother, especially for such goodies!" And when my mother helps to transplant the house plants in new pots or share a new recipe on the phone, do not hesitate to praise and afterwards add words of gratitude and recognition in love.

• Secondly , think: to open your biggest secret is possible only to close people. Those that you do not just respect and love, and which you trust. So share with your mother your secret, ask for advice in a difficult situation, show that her opinion is of enormous importance for you. To feel necessary and loved is a fabulous feeling that you can give to your parents.

• Thirdly , learn to make gifts without a reason, just like that, with all your heart. In the gift, of course, the main thing is not the cost, but the attention, the very fact of what you just thought it would be nice to do to your parents. It can be like a voucher for two for a week in a hot country, and a frame with a picture of mom and dad. It is important to be able to accept gifts with dignity.

• Fourth , ask parents about their youth, about how they were at your age. Such unpretentious conversations bring together and demonstrate your sincere interest in their lives.

• Fifth , if you are a jack of all trades, then do not be too lazy to make a collage of family photos. Only to cut, of course, you can only those pictures that are available in several copies. Order a T-shirt, calendar, plates or mugs with pictures from your family album.

• Sixthly , dinner with family members is another variation on the topic of confessions. In the demonstration culinary speech, you reveal not only your ability to cook and organizational skills, but also sincere feelings. After all, dishes cooked with love, are charged with special energy and acquire an excellent taste.

Recognition of love for parents does not require originality. There are not 100 balls in the shape of hearts with their names or inscriptions on the asphalt in front of the window. For close people it is important only that you do not forget about such a simple, but very important part of the relationship, as the words of love.


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