How much is written on the Internet tips about how to fall in love with a guy. Most of them call to "reshape" their appearance, character and outlook, squeeze into the strict framework of the ideal woman and try on each time a new mask, adjusting to the mood of a beloved man. But do men really need something redone or created artificially? No! They are looking for their only, real and unlike woman. In the patterned flow of dolls, there are none. But there is good news: to fall in love with a guy, do not change cardinally. It's enough to develop your own unique abilities, inherent in nature, know the subtleties of male psychology and always remain a woman.
10 Simple Ways to Fall in Love with a Guy
- Seduce and be tempted by your appearance. Ugly women do not exist! There are people who are lazy and dislike themselves. Even if it seems to you that nature has deprived you of beauty, remember that the standards of beauty are subject to the fashion that people create. Who prevents you from creating your own fashion for small breasts, big ears or short legs? Love in yourself what you can not change, and change what is corrected by cosmetics, clothes, shoes. Fall in love with your appearance! Only do it sincerely, and you will see that your boy will ignore a hundred glossy beauties and will choose you.
- Develop a personality. You can be a written beauty and a seductive coquette, battling all men on the spot, but it's unlikely that you'll be able to hold on to your favorite boy for a long time with just one external attraction. A woman always attracts and "anchors" men with her depth, fullness and content. Develop! Read books, attend trainings and seminars on self-development, communicate with interesting people who have something to learn. Look for your essence and learn about your uniqueness. And still, always have your own opinion, even if it goes against the generally accepted one.
- Be feminine and weak. The strength of women in the ability to be weak, allow themselves to care for themselves and give the man a space for feats. Your boyfriend is a hero! This is an axiom. Even if you do not think so, let him prove himself and prove the opposite. Sincerely need his support and ask for help. Create the conditions in which he can realize his masculine strength and ingenuity. Let him, while giving you help and protection, grows in his own eyes. This is one of the most powerful psychological moments that reliably keeps a man close.
- Recognize leadership for the guy. The initiative is the male prerogative. Your task is to lead a man to a decision, but the decision itself (call you, invite on a date, kiss, introduce to friends or parents) must come from him. Do not take the reins of the relationship in your hands, otherwise you risk taking over the male role and responsibilities, and this at best, and at worst - scare the guy with excessive aggressiveness and obsession. All men want to think that they are ruled by relationships. Well, let them think like that. We know the truth!
- Admire and encourage the guy. Only do it as sincerely as possible. Do not invent compliments and do not crumble in gratitude from scratch. Men are very sensitive to hypocrisy. Each person has abilities, skills and talents. Observe the strengths of your boyfriend and pay attention to them out loud. Eat his male pride and never compare your boyfriend with other men, especially if he showed not the best qualities of character.
- Create healthy competition. Do not think that you will fall in love with a guy if you create around yourself a sterile space from other men. Do not cross out of your life male friends, colleagues, friends. Give your guy to understand that you are interesting to other men, that to you there is literally a line of fans, but you have chosen his only one. Of course, do not give frank reasons for jealousy, but cultivate a spirit of rivalry in a man so that he always wants to remain a winner.
- Do not be easily accessible. This applies not only to sex, but also to more prosaic things: online accessibility, calls, free time. Of course, it is difficult to limit yourself by being in love. But that the guy fell in love, he should always be a little missed. Finish some dates first, referring to important cases, do not rush to respond to his offer, do not call often and do not impose yourself. Let in your life there will be other equivalent hobbies and activities. The guy should have an irresistible desire to win you over your employment.
- Do not rush to disclose the cards. Everybody knows about the man's hunting instincts. It is a fact. So do not rush to confess to the guy in your feelings, until you see or hear from him directly that he is in love. Let him know what pleases you, that you are well and reliably next to him, that you are bored, but do not let him think that you have lost your head from loving him. The longer a guy looks for confirmation of your love, the more he will fall in love himself. In all, a submissive and predictable "victim" becomes boring.
- Do not force the freedom of men into rigid frames. If you were lucky enough to interest the guy you liked, do not make the typical mistake of women - do not limit his freedom. While he does not owe you anything. Improve, develop confidence and let him look at other girls, communicate with them and even compare. How else would he know that he could not find you better? Total control and jealousy never gave guarantees to anyone. Be wiser!
- Let yourself be imperfect. Guys fall in love not with ideal girls, but in those who are not afraid to remain themselves. Recognize your imperfection and feel free to occasionally appear before a man who is not painted, ill or sleepy. You have every right to remain in any situation as a person. Do not hesitate to not know something or feel uncomfortable and stupid. Such frankness brings together. And doing little nonsense together is an indescribable pleasure. It is related and is a sign of deep trust.