You run around half a day with a rag, you turn around, you turn around, but he does not react and continues to read another newspaper, and if he watches TV, he screams too, so that the TV does not close. This is followed by resentments, tears and the most horrible conclusions ... And what is magic to tell him to at least pretend that he wants, but, of course, for some very well, very important reasons can not. To force - it means to make it so that someone has to do something.
In general, men are different and have different ways of working around the house. Therefore, deciding the question of how to force a man to do housework must be strictly individual. There are men for whom doing housework is normal and even "goes hunting". Usually these are the men who for a long time were in the status of "bachelors" (on the principle: "if not me, then who?"). Most of the men agree to do housework, if strongly ask, or do something good or pleasant. Some men just forget their duties and constantly "breakfast" their loved ones. Well, the rest of the men simply do not fundamentally do the housework, or consider it a purely female responsibility. There are those who just do not have time to do household chores, do not blame them for this, because the man was originally a breadwinner and must prove it day by day.
There are several things that men shy away from. One of these is the mother-in-law and everything connected with it. Men, probably, feeling the competition in the face of their mother-in-law, are ready to do anything, just not to mess with it and avoid unpleasant discussions in the kitchen. Of course, the request to do something about the house, ending with "tomorrow's mother coming" or something like that, the man will immediately perform, moreover, he will not mind doing the job he would never do.
Another word, in which everything is activated in a man is sex. Many women believe that if you put conditions that, if you do not fulfill them, deprive a man of sex, then he immediately runs to perform a variety of tasks. Yes, there are such men, but, remember, women, that not all are like that. Using this method, you can direct a man to the wrong path, namely the path of betrayal, which is clearly no better than doing household chores yourself. And yet in our time this is the most effective and most popular method for girls, then it's effective!
The well-known phrase "the way to the heart of a man lies through the stomach" is applicable in this situation. Having properly fed the "object", having pampered it with another culinary delicacy, you can fully rely on the kindness and diligence of a full and contented man. The next time, even counter offers may even follow, like: "Darling, for your lovely pies I'm ready to wash the dishes and even take out the trash!".
One of the most effective methods is hobby. It is probably easier for a man to carry away a child than a child. If you buy a modern iron with many functions and different things, be sure, the man will unequivocally get you questions: "What should I pat, dear?". You can get carried away by much more different things, most importantly, letting him know that this is interesting, because, usually, household chores are not the most interesting things, and they can be very interesting, you just need to present it in the best light. Men are addicted to and when someone does something. You just need to start doing things yourself, while ignoring the man a little, and the man's curiosity will not leave him indifferent, and be sure he oversteps everything that prevented him and will help you, but gradually he just starts to do different work himself.
The most direct method is based on ordinary mechanical memorization. If all the time to force a man to do housework, then after a while she will, even if she gets bored, but still remember at the subconscious level, and out of habit a man will perform a certain job.
A man, though "iron", but still, never ignores the girl's tears. This will unambiguously catch him, and he will pay attention. Turning his soul out, he will understand, maybe for a while, but still, he will understand, in order not to lead you to tears, he must do certain things.
Men, like women, as they say, are not without laziness. Be sure if the man is lying in the leotard on the couch, then asking him to go somewhere, for example, to the store, after which the man, of course, will ask: "Maybe it's better to do something at home?" Well, if your chosen athlete and quickly escapes to the store, he, as a rule, is active and at home.
Of course, there are also hopeless "cadres", which, well, nothing can be made to do anything. But, as they say, "if they are suffering for a long time - something will turn out." Well, patience to you and ingenuity. And remember: get carried away and the man himself will get carried away!
Studies show that you had everything well with your man do not need to be his second mother. Although men choose a mate for their mother's prototype, but they do not need a second mummy. Men do not like when they are commanded and are negative about different advice and reproaches. A man must feel at home and at home as a leader. It is worth reminding the man that the main for overall success should work and help the "subordinates". After all, every person wants to have everything wonderful in his family, but every person should know that for this, everyone should give all the best and there should not be any privileges in the family. Also, sharing responsibilities can help solve such problems. Suppose, if you have a "cleaning" in the living room, then it should be you, and not someone else who needs it more.
All people understand better when the explanation is in a calm mode, so do not strain the atmosphere in the family, because it is based on mutual understanding. Try and be patient, and you will certainly manage to solve all the problems in the family and life, including this one.