One thing is known: it is easier to find a man for marriage, if you think optimistically. So we will try to tune in to a positive way and understand not what a man is suitable for a serious relationship. And what men are not exactly able to build a family. It turns out that if you avoid these strange types, then with all the other applicants, except for them, you will have a chance to create a happy family.
Sissy
Such men are very gentle, attentive, delicate in their relationships. Often they quickly offer marriage and easily move to the stage of a closer relationship. Quickly offer to move to him, quickly introduce you to your friends. Some lonely women lonely, this completely deprives common sense. A sharp influx of feelings, the promise of love to the grave, a sea of compliments, gifts and care - what can be nicer? In a state of love, a woman does not think a man of this type is suitable for her or not.
The problems begin later. As soon as you move to the level of relationships, when there is spiritual closeness, emotional dependence on each other, the mother comes out onto the stage. First with surprise, then with annoyance you will begin to notice how your betrothed dances to her tune, and you are trying to force to do the same. You will be compared to your mother, and comparisons will always not be in your favor. At the same time, inconspicuous sabotage will begin against your self-esteem. A man from a soft cat will gradually transform into an impudent tyrant. To support your emotional dependence on him, he can begin to speak phrases that belittle your dignity. "Such a fat one will not fall in love, but I love the pysachek." Or: "With your character, only I can stand you." At first, these phrases do not cause fear, and some women consider them compliments. But the presence in your life of two tyrants - men and his mamas - is not that much for the relationship?
It is impossible to remodel a mama's son. Here you have to put the question squarely: either you, dear, create a distance with your mother, or we disagree. Nine odds out of ten that he will not choose you. Just the earlier you understand this, the fewer precious years will be spent on an unpromising option.
Don Juan or an incorrigible womanizer
To determine if a man is suitable for a serious relationship, pay attention to the number of his love wins. Men, prone to betrayal or to multiple novels in parallel, do not change with the years. Very rarely they degenerate into exemplary family men. Hunting for a woman is a dope, without which he can not live. In a long relationship such a man can be, but sooner or later he will go left. And the more often he changes women, and the less he is legible, the more likely that he will seduce your best friend, mother or - God forbid - growing up daughter.
Partly in this category - traitors - fit men from families in which parents divorced because of treason. Or from families where the "left-wing" campaign was generally considered the norm. Even if a man with all his heart against adultery, because he suffered from them, being a child, sooner or later he will have a desire to repeat the fate of his parents. It will be difficult to stop it, and in general - if you are not yet in love, but just eyeing a potential candidate, see how happy and happy his parents' family is. This helps to predict the main problems that you may have in your marriage with him.
Dependent person
You might think it's a surprise, but men who tend to be addicted to a mother or wife are often affected by other forms of dependence. They may have a craving for alcohol, drugs, computer games or casinos. Often, all these forms of dependence are combined, and each of them mutually reinforces the other. After losing in the casino, he immediately gets drunk. After drinking, he asks his wife for money, showing complete dependence and sinking below the baseboard. Having asked for money, he can lose or get drunk again. Whether men are suitable for a serious relationship, if they are prone to alcohol, you decide. In some localities and in some groups this is not considered a serious problem.
And yet be vigilant when meeting with a man. The fact is that such men tend to easily calculate women who can sit on their necks. If they see that such a "ride" with you, may temporarily forget about their addictions, fluff the tail and surround you with tremendous attention, love and care. Like mother's mamas, they tend to develop relationships too quickly. Especially if they feel the power in a woman, and they understand that you can "suck" to it. Taking pleasure in such a novel, study his family, traditions of attitude to alcohol, take an interest in his hobby. Do not hesitate to ask his friends and relatives about them. Dependence on alcohol or a casino is not easy to overcome, so it's better to immediately avoid relationships with such a man than to pay for them with your nerves and health.
Hidden Homosexual
Hidden homosexuals - one of the groups of men, which for long relations does not suit at all. A latent or latent homosexual may not have contact with his sex, sometimes they themselves do not realize their orientation. Often, they are interested in creating a family, because it allows them to temporarily ward off unpleasant thoughts about their dissent. Such men are a little feminine, cutesy, very devoted to their mother, although they may not be under her fifth, and they also like to joke about gays - hearing jokes about homosexuals, they laugh most loudly. Some women are attracted to all this. Assess the situation soberly, and if you see in it gay manners, do not rush to the crown - let time be put in its place.