But we want to talk a little bit about something else today. Let's talk about those cases when a man tries to avoid communication with a woman. At first glance, the situation may seem ridiculous and comical to some extent - we are all adults, and here a person tries to avoid communication with the opposite sex. What is behind such actions and from what does a person try to protect himself by doing such deeds?
And we start with life stereotypes that relate to roles and places in life for men and women. Not one year and more than one century we all perfectly see and understand that a man is a conqueror and a hunter, and a woman is a keeper of a home and a home. But you need to understand that if it was like that 200 years ago, now everything can not be like this. And the fact that many women are engaged in "male" work, and men - "women's" today does not surprise anyone. But, most likely, this hides the essence of the question "What is it, if a man avoids communication with a woman?"
The fact that a woman is trying in this life to deal not only with household chores, kitchen and children, but also realize her potential as a professional in some area has become the norm. And the fact that a woman wants to be equally successful both in the family and in the work, quite seriously worries the representatives of the stronger sex. How can it be better than me if I'm a man? Such primitive questions, probably, more than once slipped in the minds of many men. And the fact that a man can learn some domestic affairs is excluded simply because "this is not a man's job"
And then, when a strong half of humanity begins to feel the danger from representatives of the beautiful half in the form of lowering their own reputation and status - then they begin to avoid contact with the opposite sex. Often have you met men who admit defeat from a woman? Here it is.
When a person begins to avoid communication, then according to psychologists, this means that this person, in the first place, acts on elementary instincts. After all, no one has abolished the human instinct of self-preservation.
But we live in a society. Therefore, here the reasons and goals are slightly adjusted, in contrast to the animal world. And so many men can not admit to themselves that if a man sees a more successful and confident woman before him, then, as a rule, avoids communicating with her. This humiliates and insults him, as one politician has allowed himself to express himself.
And women, in addition to being successful, also lose their femininity . After all, when you come to a wolf pack, you need to become the same wolf. Otherwise you will become a victim of these wolves. Therefore, gaining success and career achievements, you need to ask yourself a question - but is it worth all this success of what I lose at the same time? After all, if a man regularly, for no apparent reason, avoids communicating with you - this is probably for this reason.
After all, most women simply give up work for 150% from personal or family life failures and so get what they want. Communication with a woman at work and at home, like the woman herself, is radically different in most cases. At work, a woman, especially if she occupies managerial positions, turns into a "peasant in a skirt" and worse than a boss can not find in the whole world - that's how many men think. And in home security and coziness you can stay natural and relaxed, because you do not need to be strict and exacting. Such games with themselves are often observed with many women.
And what can be noticed in a conversation with a woman is the style of the woman's behavior as it differs in family and work. After all, despite the fact that the beautiful half of mankind is still very resourceful and emotional, many of them can not restructure themselves from the working style and at home also behave like at work. This is, according to experts, one of the huge problems of the current society, which affect the type of modern family and relationships in it.
As some men say, communicating with a woman who is not only a woman but at the same time your boss is a kind of cat and mouse game. After all, it is necessary to present information in such a way so that she is satisfied, and do not forget to make some, even minimal, banal compliment.
Here are some points that will help you understand to some extent the reason why men try to avoid communication with women. And if the main reason for this is the fear of a more successful woman, then it must be remembered that happiness is not measured by money or career success. There is also much that brings joy to our life - this is love, and relatives, and relatives, and friends. Maybe this woman is so unhappy in her life that you can not even imagine it?