Remember, a man is a fighter, including for his own happiness, so be prepared. The main thing is not to complicate an already difficult situation. Suffice it to recall how easily you expressed your sympathy in childhood. Then there was no complicated life experience, the pain of the experiences of separation and resentment. Openness and frankness are the first step to winning the heart of a woman.
Make a step to acquaintance
If you are not even familiar with the one, special - do not delay. In case you are only familiar with superficiality, it's time to have a more friendly relationship. Invite her to a movie or a cafe, stroll through the park. Do not assume that everything is lost if she refuses. Maybe she just has other plans and you should suggest another time.
You can often be interested in her affairs, mood. Be closer, more affable. Convince her of its reliability and openness.
Do not push too hard
Even if you are striving for maximum openness and directness, it is not worthwhile in the first meeting to talk about your sympathy and desire to meet. It is better not to rush, because you can frighten a girl with such pressure. Find the golden mean between full openness and patient expectation.
Try to visit with her as often as possible. Express your sympathy very carefully: opening the door to the room, offering coffee, smiling. Pamper the girl with small, unobtrusive gifts or surprises.
Look Into Your Eyes
Surprisingly, the eyes are able to tell about a lot. The look of a man in love can not be confused with anything, so use it necessarily. Thus, you will be able to establish a closer contact and, possibly, see a spark in her eyes.
True, this does not mean that you have to nag her eyes. In some situations this may not be entirely appropriate. Always remember about moderation.
Straight Talk
If you have tried everything that we described above, you can proceed to a serious offensive: a frank conversation about feelings. However, we advise not to start with a proposal to meet. It is more appropriate to do in the fifth grade, taking care of a classmate. The easiest way to say that you feel for her certain feelings and ask what she thinks about this. Perhaps the girl herself has been watching you for a long time and waiting for an invitation to a date.
Invitation to a date can be an ideal occasion to talk about your feelings.
Do not worry too much if the girl refuses. At the same time, do not try to insist on a relationship in which she is not interested. History knows a lot of cases when a woman did not like a man, but he continued to care for her, as a result of which she gave up. Do not give up, because your life is created by them.