It's not strange, but in choosing a tender word for a beloved one you need to be very careful that they do not irritate him, do not cause the feeling that due to these words you want to achieve something from him in a mercenary sense. Therefore, even to say "how dear you are to me" or something else of this kind, you need to put maximum emotion and, most importantly, put "all your soul" into these words. So, to say affectionate words is really art.
Why is it very difficult for many women to constantly say love words for men ?
To the great regret and disappointment of the men themselves, not all women can be generous with such words. Some are absolutely sure that this is a purely male prerogative, some ladies are simply stingy at such words. Some just feel embarrassed by their emotions or just do not want to look very stupid in front of a loved one, but there are women who are hampered by their pride once again saying something pleasant to their loved one. But, and if, of course, you do not know how to say affectionate words and compliments, but try to do it, your boyfriend may simply not notice them in your chained and emotionless speech addressed to him. By the way, it is not out of the question that one of such unsuccessful attempts to confess to a loved one how expensive it is for you can completely discourage a woman from ever wanting to say such a thing aloud.
Of course, affectionate words, phrases and compliments are always terrible to say for the first time or first. After all, at such a moment you never know how the beloved reacts to this and what will be the subsequent reaction of the man and his attitude towards you. It happens with most ladies, but you should never be afraid of stupid and ridiculous to look before people who are dear to the heart. Remember that without saying what you want to say now - then maybe it's just too late. So, if the man has not started to pamper you with flattering words, start doing it yourself. As they say: the attempt is not torture. Do not attach vital importance to these words, and use them, as usual ordinary and daily.
In addition, in this extraordinary case you can easily train on your loved ones, it's for sure it will not be difficult for you to frankly say about your feelings and emotions in an affectionate manner.
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If you tell your man how much you love him, never think about how to say it and what impressions you will get from him by doing it. These phrases should be concise and come from the heart. Of course, you still have to concentrate on what you say. The main thing is a renunciation of fear and the imposition of huge emotions in such a common word, as, for example, "beloved ...".
You should never be embarrassed by your feelings and your attitude towards a person, because shameful, and even more so, that carries crime, there is nothing here. Just speak from the heart with what you feel and experience with your loved one. Only then everything that you say will not sound like a fake entrance into trust. So do not be afraid to make the man pleasant and once again remind him of how you love him. Saying such words, you simply show the man how much he is dear to you, and how you appreciate him.
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As often as possible, just so, practice talking affectionate words so that their sound is always natural and caresses the rumor of the opponent. Such phrases and phrases can be thought up in advance and told them to their mother, father, brother, sister, friends, and then to a loved one. The main thing is their unselfish meaning. All this will help you to properly master this art and prove to your chosen one that you really deserve to be with him together.
Never confuse these words with flattery. Know that these are two completely different concepts. Flattery is always capable of alienating any person.
Speak only sincere words, because the truth is very easy to distinguish from the truth.
Remember, the shorter your tender and loving phrases, the better their perception. In addition, you can simply get confused in your petting and diminutive words and cause laughter not only from your lover, but from yourself. Also worth noting is the fact that love words are not always a whole ode or poem, there are sometimes enough couple of capital words to express the depth of their feelings. The truth is told in the people that brevity is the sister of talent. And this expression is applicable in all cases of life.
Gentle words are always pleasant, but it is necessary to remember one more golden rule, which says that it is never worth overdoing. Every hour to talk to a man about how you admire him, and call him "zaei" or "cats" every minute, can just bother the man and get him out of himself.
Proceeding from everything above, I want to say once again, to say gentle and affectionate words is a skill that every loving woman should possess well. Remember that your beloved man always needs warmth, attention and affection. And if you do not "bathe him" in the words of love, well it is unlikely to end.
Know that not everything can be proved by actions and if something can be proved in words, be sure to do it. After all, a word can both upset and raise on the "wings" of love, not only the weaker sex, but also our beloved men.
Say kind words to each other and never skimp on them! Good luck to you!