You should understand that at this age a teenager can change his mood, new hobbies appear. His vocabulary changes.
You can not quickly solve the problems of adolescence. Be patient and continue to work with the child, talk to him, talk about your love to him. After all, each of the parents once experienced this teenage age.
Understand that a teenager at this age is full of strength and inspiration. Adults often do not understand the impatience of adolescents. They begin to complicate their lives, instead of helping them find the right occupation. Teenagers are not at all awful and not evil, they are ordinary people who are trying to learn to live an adult life.
The child has a lot of energy and adults, it starts to alarm and frighten. Parents begin to surround the adolescent with various prohibitions, and this can not be done. They need to be surrounded by love and understanding.
To get respect from a teenager, parents should always keep their promises. Giving your child a promise, you must be completely confident that you are able to fulfill them. If you break this promise, the child will move away from you and believe you will no longer. In the end, you lose.
Parents should understand that teenagers at the age of 13 can feel like a mature forty-year-old, and sometimes even a five-year-old. At this age, children seek care and help from the elders to plan further life. Do not surround the adolescent with restrictions and prohibitions, but create a trusting relationship.
When a teenager can manifest his independence, learn how to do the right thing, consider that the adolescent period is successfully completed.
Let your teenage children become full-fledged people.