How to live until the Golden Wedding

Every woman who marries his beloved dreams to live happily ever after with him. However, far from all this dream comes true. Many women suddenly realize for themselves how difficult it is to solve the problems that have arisen without hurting anyone's interests, how to diplomatically avoid conflicts. Probably, therefore, some married couples part without even noticing their "wooden" wedding. What should be done to calmly and safely live up to the wedding "golden"? Perhaps, the following wise advice will help you very much: First - remove the "pink" glasses from yourself! After all, you are already a big girl to naively believe in a prince on a white horse. You can, of course, dream a little about it, but only. And in real life try to pay more attention to the nearest to you male environment. Probably, you will be lucky enough to find a worthy challenger for your hand and heart.

If you do not give rest to romantic stories about the charming Cinderella, then, by connecting the imagination, come up with your own lucky tale! And more often remember the fabulous moments of your own love. It is possible that then bald in 20 years, a short dark-haired man will seem to you a real prince. Your favorite prince!

Second - if you firmly believe in perfect love, you will have to grieve a little. According to the observations of experienced psychoanalysts, the probability of neuroses in the further marital life increases precisely because of the marriage "for great love". And you need it ?!

Even if it seems to you that you have found real, bright and great love, do not rush the crown. Calmly understand the readiness to accept your loved one with all his shortcomings, be convinced of the strength of your relationship.

Third , be ready, when marrying, not only favorably receive signs of attention from your beloved husband, but also give him such attention. Apply the same amount of effort in dealing with each other. After all, this is the difference between the "high relations" that we dreamed about. Otherwise, soon even the most wonderful unilateral relations will crack.

Fourthly - do not take seriously the stupid statement that marriage will become a hindrance in your career, prevent communication with former friends and other nonsense. Marriage, of course, will limit to some extent the scope of your freedom, but it is unlikely that your independence will oppress. The main thing in family life is a trusting relationship between spouses.

Fifthly - give up the illusions that you will be engaged in love for as long as you like intensively, as during romantic dates in your youth. Hormones of passion in the course of time have a tendency to subside, so treat it calmly. This is normal. Simply periodically "put things in order" in your intimate relationships, refresh them with your beloved spouse.

Sixthly , you do not think that after the stamp in your passport your relations will develop successfully by themselves! Remember that family life is the painstaking daily work of both spouses.

Seventh , you absolutely do not need to know about your husband absolutely everything. This is fraught with loss of interest in him. Do not tell him about yourself every little thing. And this applies not only to relationships with friends and your work, but also to the small secrets of your attractiveness. The husband absolutely does not need to know why your cheeks are so ruddy, why the eyes shine.

Eighth , do not literally every step of your spouse to be vigilant to monitor or try to stay close to him. Believe me, you will soon be very tired of each other. They say that the best way to hate each other is to stay close by.

Make the right conclusion from the above tips: live your life, receiving from it pleasure and joy. And then just share them with your beloved and dear half.

So you will be very comfortable together. And only in this way you will have a real chance to live up to the "golden" wedding without fail in a happy marriage!