Minuses of sex during the months
There is a risk of infection. And the danger of threatening women, and men. This is due to the appearance of bacteria, for which the blood during this period is a favorable breeding ground for reproduction. Bacteria can get inside through the open cervix and cause illnesses that lead to unfortunate consequences.
Men are also at risk because the urinary canal can get vaginal discharge and cause purulent inflammation.
Another disadvantage of such sex is inconvenience. Partners must comply with the necessary hygiene rules. An obligatory condition is the acceptance before and after the process. In advance, prepare a damp towel and a clean cloth. Under it you can put an oilcloth to avoid staining the bed linen.
It will not be superfluous to use a condom. However, he only can help a man. The woman will still be under threat of infection in the vagina.
For other reasons that interfere with sex during the month, you can relate religion. For example, Muslims in such a period consider the woman dirty, but Jews treat it calmly and even vice versa, should surrender to love.
Another negative aspect is the aesthetic aspect. Not everyone is burning with the desire to get dirty with menstrual blood. And not because he wants to get infected. Simply, many of them disdainfully treat any discharge from the female genital organs, especially with menstruation. Some even consider that making love during menstruation is a dirty and immoral affair.
The Pros of Sex Privately
Many women at this time receive the strongest orgasm of sex, as the flow of blood to the genitals promotes swelling of the vagina, as a result of which it decreases in size and becomes more sensitive and moisturized.
Some women are lucky. They reduce menstrual pain during sex. Spasms with orgasm, push out the liquid that has accumulated in the uterus, thereby reducing the swelling and, accordingly, the pain recede.
The pluses include a decrease in the menstrual cycle, because after orgasms, cell rejection occurs much faster, respectively, and it is easier for a woman.
There are men who are very excited about having sex with a woman on time. Most likely, this is due to the fact that sex becomes similar to a sesame-masochistic act, and the man gets a special pleasure. This applies to psychological advantages, because in this case it becomes possible to satisfy your fantasies without doing something illegal. But there are few such men. They also wake up attraction to a partner, stronger than usual, because sex is associated with a forbidden fruit.
Since the risk of pregnancy with monthly ones comes to naught, it gives an opportunity to relax both partners and get true pleasure. Men win especially, because every man loves a complete sexual intercourse. However, the probability of pregnancy, although insignificant, remains. Sperm can live in the body of a woman from five days to a week! Therefore, do not forget about contraception.
Despite the fact that there are a lot of positive and negative points in the menstrual period, the final decision is still equal to you and your partner. The only thing you need to endure for yourself from this story is not to forget to protect yourself, observe hygiene and respect the desire of another. If one of you does not want to have sex - do not press him. It will be safer to sit down and discuss all the moments that suit you or do not arrange you for one reason or another. And lastly - listen only to each other. No advice from here is valid. This is an intimate process and concerns only the two of you. Especially unpleasant to know that the secrets of your intimate life are known not only to you.