Any relationship must be properly built, because there are different types of relationship between a man and a woman. Therefore, to begin with, you need to clearly understand what kind of relationship they are in at the moment. Either this is just sex, or people meet, or live together. In all these respects, people have different attitudes towards sex and each other.
Romantic relationship
For a couple who just started dating, we can recommend, extend the romantic period of their relationship, so that love can develop. The best romantic relationship is in adolescence and in extreme old age. This is a period of time when people are enough that they will be looked at in the eyes, held by the knee, write a letter, remember their favorite soap, cheese that a person loves, they will properly serve a coat, etc.
Unfortunately, in our time romantic relationship is given very little time. And during this time we do not have time to "get" that stock of memories of romantic relationships, on which our love keeps on. For example, memories of how he looked, how he missed, whether he wrote poetry, what he wrote, whether he bought gifts, whether he asked for rest, dreamed, cared, etc.
In each pair that is just beginning to meet, these small moments develop in different ways. For example, we met in a cafe, told each other two or three sentences and understood - we are like-minded people. We looked carefully at each other and realized: I want to live with this person until my old age. We talked about the Creator, touched hand to hand and realized - we are unanimous. And then what difference does it make when you start intimate relationships today, in a week or in 1.5 months, as some sexologists recommend.
If you really want to be close
It happens that the hair becomes a "rack", your head itches, your hands are shaking, until you want a person here and now. I called at night, called, called a taxi and you go. Sometimes such a feeling and desire can be stopped if the mind says, "Wait, it's not time, patience." If there is such an opportunity to prolong the relationship, it is better to wait, if there is no such opportunity, do not listen to anyone, love each other in the elevator, on the landing, in the car. All these feelings and emotions we take with them into old age.
If a man gives a woman a few minutes a day, and a woman works on relationships more than a few minutes, then it turns out that this couple will almost never part. And then it makes no difference whether they slept together or not.
Love affair at work
That's when there is a service romance where we are limited in time, we understand that if today we do not fuse, then we will walk in the park for several days, then we will have artistic copulation, and then we will cry, saying good-bye at the station and no one to anyone will not write, no one will come to anyone. The probability that this will result in a strong marriage for love, probably one percent.
When you have little time and you do not really want each other, you understand that this person will remain a memory, a bright picture that you take in your old age, close your eyes to reality and enter into this relationship, then not to reproach yourself for unrealized opportunities. If you can stop, stop, coo, walk and leave it a romantic adventure, one that is not ashamed then will share with a close friend or even with her husband.
Where is the breakdown in the relationship? When a couple begins to have sex and in the first week after the wedding, some newlyweds begin to show different freaks of their sexual handwriting. But do not forget that life is one, long and long and you theoretically want you to be the only partner.
Whether you are a man or a woman, a girl or a guy, you must understand that in your life you must constantly bring in something new. For example, if a dish of life is peppered, oversaturated or added a lot of sugar, it becomes inedible, so in life - everyone looked, everyone saw, read each other like a read book - this is not permissible. Prolong your relationship, swear to put up, invent some moments in order to surprise your partner, do bad, let's forgive yourself.
Creativity in sex
But as for sex, then of course creativity in all its manifestations. And as for any creativity, you need a creative mood. Rarely any writer or artist understands that at 8 o'clock I'll take a brush and draw a masterpiece. We need to wait for the creative mood, and the mood still gives romantic love. And these magical interlaces of sexual desire and romantic love are the trigger mechanism for the hearts to knock in unison.
One partner needs to smell each other, take a closer look, listen to the person breathing, look at his reactions, and then not be surprised. Since there are times when men say I took care of a woman, she was so romantic, not a single obscene word, but how she behaved in bed, I was completely disappointed in her, it's good that we did not get married. This is absolutely the opposite person and I do not like it. Of course, in each pair, these relationships are individual, but sex extols vivid colors in all relationships.
Sex for love
Sometimes it happens in a romantic relationship that one loves more, the other lets himself be loved, one goes to a meeting, the other takes care of, each one has this period in its own way, but when people undress, then the name goes away, "you" goes away, complexes and there are people without especially great aesthetics. This is a beautiful process, which is probably not very beautiful from the outside, for example, not as beautiful as in porn movies. It's smeared mascara, sweaty face, disheveled hair.
But when sex for love and when you gave this love the opportunity to be born and mature, then this process will keep your relationship throughout life, even though you do not agree with the characters, despite your age difference, despite the huge a bunch of gap assistants.