It has long been noted that the representatives of the stronger sex, being cold and restrained natures, attract women's interest much more than men who openly show their feelings. Men of this type keep women at a certain distance, tender and gentle words are alien to them. The same applies to compliments. They are confident in their point of view and therefore almost never agree in their wrongness. It follows that apologies for men of this category are very, very rare. If all of the above features are inherent in your partner, then you can confidently say that you have an emotionally cold man.
Will there be enough patience?
This is the main question, to which the girl should answer, who has chosen an emotionally cold male representative. In fact, this netak is just as it seems.
After all, every girl needs her second half to remember to her how much she is loved, about how nice to be around. To hear love for the fair sex is very important. But, having chosen the man-like type, which is inherent in emotional cold, you will have to accept that you will not hear all this. You just need to be confident in the feelings of your chosen one, because with words this will be confirmed quite often.
And over time, nothing will change. Therefore, there is a two-variant, or to be next to such a man and take it as such, or not. If you chose the first option, then we will give you some tips on how to live a stunt man.
Take a man for who he is
This is a very useful advice for any relationship, but in this case, especially. Do not try to "remake" a loved one. After all, it is as it is, and it is as such that you fell in love with it. And since it so happened that it is you who are sensitive and emotional in your pair, act more wisely. Give your beloved warmth and affection, and perhaps, in time, your man will learn how to show his concern. But the reproaches that he is relatively cold with the swami is that you do not have enough attention and pleasant words, only will aggravate your relations and will not lead to anything good.
Learn to express feelings by your own example
It is quite difficult for a man to analyze and understand the various actions of a woman. This is due to the fact that we think in different ways. And it is not natural for a man to express emotions the way a woman does. In this case, it is necessary to demonstrate by your example how to behave in a situation or another.
Let us give an example. You, coming from work, complain about your second half life. And after numerous and emotional stories you get in response to a dry reaction. That's when you need to explain what you want to hear in response to this situation. Perhaps you would like to be pityed, embraced, or simply emotionally afflicted. Or such an example, you come home and say how much you missed, and in response nothing intelligible. Here you must also understand what you would really like to hear. Even if it is "me too", this is already quite enough. It must be made clear that a little reciprocity of such conversations will bring you great joy. So, let it be trifles, but your man with your help, in response to your complaints will begin to pity you and hug, ana words of love to reciprocate. If you take this question seriously, later, for your half, this form of communication will become the norm.
Admire changes in the behavior of your half for the better
It is very important to encourage every positive change in the acts of the isls. For example, your favorite kisses you, leaving the house. Be sure to cost, how you like it and how great it is. A man must understand that this is only a trifle, which costs nothing to him, and in turn gives you a lot of pleasure.
Do not overestimate the expected
Do not wait too much. Yes, some trifles with the help of your patience can be corrected. But do not flatter yourself. Your man is such, what nature created by nature, the essence of a person can not be changed. Therefore, rejoice in some positive additions to the behavior of a man, some glimpses of the warmth of the Ilaski. But, in any case, accept your loved one as he is. Tell me, are beautiful words so important? Or nevertheless, it is important to be real-worldly actions, and not words at all.
Appeal to the psychoanalyst
In the modern world, a visit to a psychologist is quite a popular and useful procedure. In this case, can the root of emotionally cold behavior lie in education, or in the structure of the personality, but in past attitudes that have failed? In this case, only a psychologist will help to sort out everything.