Unjustify it
Everyone can act wrong and make mistakes. And your lover is no exception. Therefore, if you see that he did wrong, do not justify it in your eyes and in the eyes of others. Remember that you have every right to express your opinion. Of course, it does not mean that on any occasion it is necessary to roll up a scandal for a man and "saw" him. But you also can not turn a blind eye to all his punctures. Especially if it concerns directly you, your self-esteem and dignity. If the guy is vassosorbil, never be afraid to point it out. A normal loving person will always think about his action. But if he starts to resent, accuse you of all the sins of the world and make you guilty, think about how much a man loves you. The fact is that a loving man will never allow himself to humiliate and insult a loved one, let alone a beloved woman. So, instead of finding excuses for his outburst of anger, calmly and confidently tell him that he did wrong and somehow must solve the situation, since this development of events suits you completely.
Do not insult yourself
If a woman allows a man to call her, aug even more, turned to her mother, then she immediately loses dignity in his eyes. Of course, there are situations when we do absolutely wrong, and the guy can say in his heart: "Well, you're stupid." But this should happen very rarely at such a time, you really should understand that you are very seriously naporachili. If the man allows himself to speak in your direction offensive with frightening regularity, you should immediately stop it. Tell him that you are not going to listen to such things and if he does not stop, then you will have to part. Ine it's worth reassuring yourself that these are just words. Such words are very deeply hurt and offended. They humiliate not only you, but also the guy himself, as a normal man considers it beneath his dignity to offend women. So in the case when your man is a boor, you must immediately establish your rules and stop such treatment with you. Otherwise, he will treat you like a rag and assume that you are a being that is lower than he.
Guilt
Many women constantly blame themselves in all the problems that can arise between them and the young man. After any scandal, they find the man an excuse, and they begin to "drive into a corner" and convince themselves that they are the worst and they are to blame for everything. Because of this self-belief, women constantly apologize to men and suffer a sense of guilt. This behavior immediately destroys your sense of dignity on the root. Therefore, if there are any scandals and quarrels, try to look at the situation adequately. If you love and appreciate a person, then there can not be such that you deliberately hurt him every time. At a minimum, both of you are to blame for the problem, and it may well be that your guy was wrongly received. Therefore, if you feel and know that he is to blame, keep standing on your own. Your man should know that his beloved has his own opinion and respect for himself. Therefore, she is not going to constantly drag the burden of guilt and grovel before him. Remember that constant accusations of yourself in all the sins of normal men irritate and cause you disgust, and those who love to use others - the feeling of possession and desire to completely destroy your essence and really make your slave. Therefore, if you do not want to lose your sense of self-worth, always know how to defend your opinion and do not go to reconciliation until the man recognizes his mistakes.
Complexes
Very often women begin to lose a sense of dignity before men because of their complexes. Especially, if the girl thinks that her baby is smart and beautiful, and she is almost a dull little woman and the ladies constantly say that they are not worthy of their muzhchin. In order for a guy to respect you, never behave in a similar way. Even if initially he will persuade you, then in the end you will begin to be neglected. The fact is that men love women who are self-confident. Remember one thing: if he is a swami, then he sees in you both beauty, and kindness, and much more. And slandering yourself, you humble yourself and humiliate him. Everyone wants to have the best ones next to them. And if you do not consider yourself as such, then why should your boyfriend be so concerned? Remember this always, and in any case, do not start each day talking about how grateful they are that he condescended to choosing you. You can be grateful for love, care, kindness, but in no way for the fact that he regretted the flawed and tolerated it side by side, but it turns out as you say.
Change and parting
And finally, it is worth remembering about the worst, but quite real event in the life of the couple: treason and parting. If your man has changed or decided to part with you, you must do your best to preserve your dignity, no matter how difficult you are. Therefore, in any case, try not to return it and do not promise that you will forgive everything, if only it was nearby. This is the worst thing a woman can do. So she literally tramples herself. As much as you did not like, if a man stopped loving you, you should not in any way try to keep him and bring him back. Otherwise, such attempts are transformed into imposing, pleading and humiliation. Remember that the sea of sms and calls in the three-hour night with confessions of love you will never win the feelings of men. So you just convince him that you are a worthless creature that can be footballed and thrown, but it will still crawl back. If, after your humiliation, the guy does return, he will treat you as if you were his slave to the end of days. Therefore, if you want to keep a sense of self worth before a guy - release it with your head held high when you're not trying to get it back. Even if it hurts, in any case you will still be a real woman, not a weak-willed one.