Sex and its consequences
After what period after dating, the couple is ready for sexual intercourse? There is no clear definition of this boundary: in each individual case, a man and a woman determine it on their own. At the same time, we must understand that, crossing this line, each of the participants will inevitably have to deal with the consequences. It would seem that sex is pure physiology. Meanwhile, there is a theory that proves that the purpose of this priceless gift of nature is the inception of a deep connection between people. In the sexual act, not only bodies, but also souls participate. It is through the mystery of love that they are connected with each other by invisible threads. And formed an alliance of two, designed for a long period of time. As you can see, nature took care of everything and created many tricks, which we gladly come across. Ideally, the reason for intimate relations should be sincere love, and not instincts or "sports" interest. After all, man is one of three living beings (besides dolphins and chimpanzees) who make love for the sake of pleasure. But, unlike animals, we can approach to sex consciously! You should understand that after the night of love you will have an energy connection with this man. And when you no longer want to have anything to do with it, the gap can be very painful. Surely among your friends there are a lot of couples that then run up, then again converge. This connection does not give them any pleasure, no peace, no opportunity to build new relationships. So before you start planning the first night together with a man, ask yourself: "Do I want to deal with the result of intimate relationships with this person?" Consider that from now on there will be something very serious between you that will affect yours, and his life. Are you ready for this?
Work without errors
We will assume that the last question you answered in the affirmative. So, let's move on to the next topic of our conversation: preparing for one of the most exciting moments of your relationship. As a rule, before the first sex with a new partner, we are seized with anxiety, anxious thoughts are crowded in our heads. We are afraid to not like the lover, we are afraid of his assessments and unpleasant revelations. To the first sex is not the last, try to behave as naturally as possible. What exactly you should not do is pretend. Hardly every woman considers it her duty during the first intimacy to simulate an orgasm. If you go this way, then do not be surprised when the second intimate meeting will take place according to the same scenario as the first one. After all, a man mistakenly finds that he already found a key to your sexuality. Do not be shy about talking about your feelings and sharing feelings. If you do not like something, tell me frankly: "Beloved, let's try differently."
The first pancake
The future of the couple largely determines the impression of the first night of love. But what happened? Try to treat the situation with humor. You are not strangers to each other and you can frankly talk about what prevented you from having fun. Perhaps, this is excessive tension, stress, overwork, uncomfortable situation. We are all ordinary people who have the right to make mistakes. Therefore, the next time you decide to have sex, prepare the conditions necessary for this - and there will be no "misfires".
If the girl "is not ripe"
If a woman feels that she is not yet ready for intimacy, then she should allow herself to wait exactly as long as she needs to "ripen." It's important to talk frankly with a partner, say: "Give me a little time. Can I move to this not as fast as you? "If a man is really interested in a relationship with this girl and respects her right to" postponement, "he will agree. Otherwise, think: maybe it's not the person with whom it is worth sharing such an important moment. There are girls who need certain conditions to feel safe. In this case, the partner should be told the following: "In order for this to happen, I need to feel protected. I want to know that you will do everything possible to make the first intimate meeting a new wonderful experience for me. " Again, if a man respects the feelings of the chosen one, he will take care of this. The task of representatives of a strong stalemate is to provide protection and create safe conditions. Now we know how to make the first sex wonderful.