As you know, it is sex that distinguishes love and matrimonial relations between a man and a woman from a simple romantic friendship. After all, for the establishment of warm and harmonious sexual relations, it is not enough simply to follow your sexual instincts, which we inherited from nature. In modern society, sexual relations are much more important than before.
For illustrative examples, you can not go far - think, and how many secrets of sexual relations did you heartily discuss with your grandparents or even your parents? In general, the society today makes special demands for sex, as if dictating a peculiar code and rules of behavior in bed, despite the fact that for the previous generations it all looked absolutely different.
Certainly, excellent sex is a very important thing for both genders.
It is important for a normal man to always feel that his partner has sex with him no less than himself. If a man sees that a partner, to put it mildly, is not enthusiastic about having sexual relations with him, he usually has a languid mood and apathy. A good sex woman is really important to a woman, not less than for a man, but the strongest need for sexual relations arises only when platonic love has already come, when emotional experiences have appeared.
In general, there is a rather interesting fact that concerns many men - at the very beginning sexual relations with women are mostly more mechanical in nature and the process of sexual contact does not last very long for him, but in the fair sex the situation is exactly the opposite. The easiest way to show this is by the example - when a young husband returns home after a long absence (for example, after a business trip), he wants to have sex with his wife as soon as possible, while a woman is more important than talking to her, knowing how her husband's affairs are, what news he brought, and only then make love. Often misunderstanding or ignorance of this psychological difference in the sexes can lead to the fact that a man will feel rejected, and a woman may have a feeling that she is being used, not even her, but only her body.
In general, if you think about it a little, sex between a man and a woman is quite an interesting process, in which for most women it is important not only emotional and spiritual contact with your partner, but also how much he feels and understands the woman's intimate needs.
Sex between a man and a woman: interesting facts
Now let's discuss how women and men assess their achievements or failures in sex. Men tend to evaluate success or failure in intimacy by how many orgasms a woman has achieved during the process. If a woman has no signs of an orgasm approaching, for a man this is a signal that he is doing something wrong. However, in fact, this is not the case in all cases, because women simply can not reach orgasm every time they are intimate, although this does not mean that they are uncomfortable with intimacy, unlike men who are able to reach orgasm with any sexual intercourse.
And yet, what can make sexual relationships memorable and harmonious, what will help make them different from "normal" sex? Among men and women, sociological surveys were conducted, which yielded rather interesting results. For example, most men are often taken to talk about how much effort they have made to bring their partner to orgasm, while the weaker sexes pay more attention to the emotional, spiritual side that precedes the very act of intimacy, and not on its physiological aspects like those.
It can be concluded that both men and women basically want and are striving for the same thing, but they are trying to make significantly different, and often even generally, opposite methods. This is most often the main reason for the incomprehension between the sexes.
Therefore, all who are in sexual relations, you can give advice to be more sensitive not only to yourself, but also to your partner.