Everyday life in women is filled with joys and emotions, and very often they can not contain the storm of their emotions. With whom they can gossip, discuss their problems, how not with their best friends. Sometimes talking on the phone is not enough, the desire to calmly communicate with like-minded people in close quarters for a cup of coffee or tea. In this case, they meet at the bachelorette party - an event where only women gather.
A little emancipation.
Married woman, most likely first will have to fight with her husband for her independence. Because not every spouse will agree to let his wife go to a hen party. Of course, the husband trusts his wife, but at the same time he is sincerely convinced that for his wife in the world there is nothing more important than himself. Therefore, he may think that when his wife meets her friends, she will discuss with her husband. That's why the wife needs to insistently, but gently impress his beloved first, that she connected her life with him, not in order to publicly humiliate him. Secondly, the wife must remind her husband that by giving vows of loyalty and love, she did not undertake to break off relations with her friends. And after all the wife lets the husband with friends on stadium or fishing.
In fact, not all husbands are such owners. To control every step of his wife and not let her go anywhere. If the hen party is an old tradition for the wife, it is better to choose specific days and warn her husband about her absence beforehand.
We carefully prepare.
Where will it be better to organize a bachelorette party? There are many options: from a cafe to someone's dacha or apartment. On the girls' party do not need to think about the menu - here the first option is more suitable. And it's also possible that some of your friends have a very good financial position. But whether it is necessary to force your girlfriend to be engaged in charity or even worse to get money, which were postponed for a rainy day. Also, strangers do not allow to give the meeting a pleasant intimacy. Option, to arrange a bachelorette party at someone at home all fit. But remember, that on a hen party there should not be representatives of a stronger sex or a hen party will be doomed to failure.
It is better to get together with a single girlfriend or to throw money and buy tickets for husbands, for some sports. The dacha is also suitable for this event, but it is necessary that it be well prepared, because women will not want to carry water from the well and chop wood. Still it is possible that somebody will not be able to stay the night, so it is necessary that the girlfriends who do not have cars can return home.
We distribute all duties.
If you want to get together from a friend, you need to discuss all the organizational issues in advance. For example, choose who will be responsible for food and drinks. Some will cook, others mix non-alcoholic drinks or buy wine. If possible, the dishes should be simple, you do not need to spend a lot of time, but they can differ in refinement, because you can be pampered yourself.
It will be better to cook at home, so as not to waste extra time, and spend it on communication. Before the hen, the hostess will tell you what you need to take with you. Maybe someone has beautiful rings for napkins or glasses. It will be superfluous if you leave a few delicacies for members of the host family, who will not be at the hen party. Let them also be a little nice.
What will everyone be interested in?
What should I talk about, but what is not on the hen party? This question may seem strange, because women also gather in a narrow circle in order to talk about everything. But in the life of every woman there are their own sick topics, and it will be better that the rest do not concern them. For example, it will be ugly to talk about the joys of your motherhood, with that friend who has not been pregnant for several years.
If not all your friends can boast a broad erudition, it will be ugly to talk about the films of Federico Fellini or the philosophical concept of Jean-Paul Sartre. Therefore, you need to choose neutral topics for conversations that will interest all your friends.
Good luck to you bachelorette party!