Do you have to hear excuses about bad weather, headaches or very important things? In such a situation, you should not hang your nose and find the right approach to the subject of adoration, because then there are little tricks and tricks. Let's talk about how to persuade a girl to come on a date.
First of all, do not worry. Always one simple thought helps: there is practically no one person who would not be denied at least once. Having understood this, you should simpler and be more optimistic about such things. This way of thinking will give you self-confidence, and as a result - the ability to easily start a conversation, interest, invite on a date, i.e. success with the opposite sex. So the first rule: do not be afraid to lose the war, not yet entered the battle!
Next, you should find an individual approach to each person, given her tastes, hobbies and character. Some melt at the sight of the bouquet and the guy sticking out under the windows, or even better painting something on the asphalt or on the snow. Others just dream of having a confident male bass set before the fact "Today we should definitely go to the cinema (theater, cafe, park, etc.)!" For example, one familiar married couple still tells everyone "their" story. The girl had a difficult period of life: health problems, fatigue from combining work and study, family troubles. And then her friend came to her at the end of the day and said: "Do you want it or not, and we now go for a walk. You need to relax and rest. " Since that moment, she has never again looked at him as a friend, - he became her strong and self-confident defender.
Let's say you found out that she (like, indeed, most girls) prefers energetic guys. It is not necessary to wait for a good moment or the opportunity to remain alone with her in order to begin active operations. All of us are sometimes pleased to be in the spotlight, so give her such a wonderful opportunity. Just running up to her on the street shouting "Girl, I need your help!" And adding: "I just need to take a walk with you", you will already make her smile, and the element of surprise may well affect her positive response.
Tell an unfamiliar girl about how charming and how she liked you, but the world is so unfair that, most likely, she has a boyfriend or even a husband, and maybe both at once. It is likely that after such a lyrical digression, she, smiling, will say that in fact it is not so and certainly will not refuse further communication with you.
Do not be afraid to seem ridiculous, do not be afraid to surprise, if you do not know how to persuade the girls to come on a date. You can just say "I think you've lost something." The girl in turn will be puzzled to sort out all possible options in her head or look around. It is very useful t-shirt with the inscription "I am your lost second half", which can be demonstrated by unbuttoning the shirt.
Remember, the main thing is the ability to create a calm environment, not to frighten the girl with your antics and at the same time not to seem boring to her. You should not also be brazen or even rude, trying in every possible way to get the long-awaited consent to your invitation. No one will appreciate the phrase "You do not know what you're losing", "Well, in vain - you'll later regret", etc. Rather, on the contrary: you need to remain calm and proud. In addition, nothing so fuels the interest of the girl to you, like another girl next to you. And, even if you were refused, just pretend that you are not so upset about it and can quite easily communicate with other, equally interesting people. A little later, after asking if the girl did not change her mind, you, most likely, will learn that now she is not even against going on a date.
If it is a question of your friend, the relationship with which everything will not pass from the status of "friends" to something more serious, then it is just to show her your attention, care and that not in vain all this time you were near. Remember where she would like to be, her hobbies and tastes. Even a simple invitation to the cinema can be very beautifully furnished, adding the phrase "I do remember that you like comedies (melodramas, horrors, etc.)." Tell her that you want to teach her how to skate, play bowling and you are guaranteed victory. Invite her to a concert or exhibition of paintings, buy a book, a music CD or just her favorite cake - the main thing is to show that you know what she wants, and attentive to her and her words.
But, as for me, the most wise approach is to make a girl think of you so that she herself decides to take the first step. So, for example, one guy for a long time talked with a girl, which everyone dreamed of, only her met. She, of course, knew about this, which had a great effect on her self-confidence and neglect of the opposite sex. And then at a meeting instead of the usual "Hello! How did you do? "The guy said to her:" I talked with your friend the other day and, honestly, did not expect to hear this about you "and just went on. Within a few days she wrote him sms asking him to explain what he meant. As there was no answer, the girl started calling the guy, still without receiving an answer. And only after a couple of weeks she was able to persuade him to meet and calmly discuss everything. Flowers, a smile and the phrase "It was necessary to somehow stir you up and interest you" did not leave her indifferent.
In the same way, you can intrigue any girl, saying that she is waiting for a surprise or something she has not seen, and that it will be a matter of your own imagination.
So it's not so important which method you choose, the main thing is to act confidently and beautifully. It must always be remembered that girls love attention, care and want to see next to a simultaneously courageous, strong and sensitive guy. Try them to become or, at least, to convince the girl that you are such and success to you is guaranteed!