Almost all the girls from the very childhood have to hear that they have to find a good husband and marry successfully. But if the husband is not there and the marriage is not planned in the next five years, is it worth despair then?
In fact, the view that a woman should be married and her husband can really be considered a relic of the past. There is nothing unhappy that a woman is left alone. The main thing is that she really really should be left alone. And, it's not about the ladies who hate muzhchin and bypass them by the tenth way. This behavior is psychological, and it is necessary to fight it. Now we are talking just about the besieged women who have enough communication and attention, and they hate all the representatives of the stronger sex, because they do not pay attention to them, but all the ladies for having at least some kind of man.
The possibility of realizing
So, why can a woman be alone? Firstly, and with this difficult to argue, loneliness makes it possible to self-actualize. When a woman is married or lives with a young man, very rarely they spend time with their favorite pursuits, on travel and so on. And when children are born, then for sure you can forget for at least a few years. No matter how adventurous nebyly husband and wife, in the end it all comes down to the fact that all the money goes to life, snobby, equipment and so on. In order to live normally, we have to work a lot, but rest and self-development remains miserable. A lonely lady from all this is spoiled. She can earn as much as she needs to live well herself. In addition, she has a full do not infringe on the purchase of any female trinkets and do not listen to her husband's tirades about the fact that she spends money on all sorts of nonsense. And yet, due to the fact that you do not need to work hard to support a family, a single woman has a lot of time for hobbies, traveling and so on. Many people say that gradually friends and relatives start families and children and travel becomes bearable, but most simply not interesting. In fact, this is a stupid excuse. If a person is sociable, he can always make new acquaintances and new friends who also like to live for themselves and not to report to anyone.
Help
By the way, a single woman is by no means an egoist. On the contrary, it is she who can always help her relatives at a difficult moment. As a rule, single ladies have the time and the opportunity to develop in terms of career, so there is always enough money to not only provide for themselves, but also help others. And yet, a lonely sister or girlfriend is an ideal aunt who can always help with the baby, work out with him, sit down when the parents need to get away. By the way, many single women do not want to have a family, because they feel that they can not devote themselves completely to the child and become bad mothers. There are people who condemn these ladies, but in fact, such women, on the contrary, are honest with themselves and others. They recognize their disadvantages, and they do not play at the audience in motherhood, but unconsciously or even knowingly, they hate their children. In addition, the lonely also have a maternal instinct, and it's enough to enjoy doing with your nephew. Yes, by the way, it is lonely women who receive the greatest pleasure from fussing with their children and not always because they do not have their own children. Prostoonyi want to invest in someone a piece of their knowledge and skills, but they do not feel the duty to do this always. And as you know, by our own desire, we all perform work better than by order.
The freedom of action
Why is it lonely to be better than with someone? Another plusness is freedom of action. You can walk with friends with men and not make excuses before your husband, explaining that they are really just friends, and the fact that you want to see them often does not mean at all what you want to change. A woman can cook what she pleases, and not stand on the stove for half a day, so that the beloved comes, ate everything for half an hour, and then said: "No, well, certainly not bad, but you could cut the tomatoes a little bit smaller." In general, as a matter of fact, the lady becomes completely given to herself and can adjust a life "under itself", instead of to think, first of all, man, as it is done practically by all female representatives.
Out of single women, excellent volunteers are obtained. It is these ladies who can happily spend their time and finances on the needy, just being sure that nobody is starving at home. But if you think about it, it's just fine - to help those who really need it. How many children in orphanages, how many old people in hospices that are unnecessary to anyone. In some people it is more pleasant and easier to give their love to them than to give to a person who in time can simply get bored.
Sexual independence
Many people say that single women suffer from a lack of sex or vice versa, they turn into practically girls of easy behavior. In fact, those who really behave this way do not suffer from lack of sex, but from lack of intelligence. A self-sufficient single woman can quite easily provide herself with intimacy, without turning into those who are called "fallen." The main thing is that a lonely lady does not cover her desire to find a husband for herself. Then she really should not be alone and not just look for a sexual partner, because she can fall in love with him, and then the suffering of her property will begin. If a lady does not notice this with her, then one can calmly practice such a relationship as "friendship with privileges". In any company or team there must be a single guy who does not want to associate himself with serious relationships, but is always ready to have sex with a lady who is and can be his friend. For single girls such friends are the best option. And in that you have nothing to each other, you have not only a sexual partner, but also a person who can help you with purely masculine work, and pay attention. And after all to ladies, as a matter of fact, this and it is necessary отпаней. After all, we get married, because we want us to be looked after, helped, and made beautiful gestures. That's only in most cases it all ends as soon as a stamp is put on the passport. But our male friends are always ready to do something nice for their girlfriend, because they do not feel obligated and can leave at any moment. And as you know, if a person feels free to act, then he does not want to go anywhere.
Loneliness for women is not so terrible as it can be after you listen to the stories of the older generation. Simplicity, which chose this particular way of life, should really be rejuvenated, and not hide under the guise of indifference grief. And yet, she should not be afraid and afraid of men. By the way, if you treat life in this way, take care of yourself and be self-sufficient, then in the end, you can meet a person who will accept you just this and not try to change anything that will love and bow down, rather than wait for worship. After all, so that they do not talk there, and men most appreciate the strong women who can always leave, because they and themselves are not bad at all.