In order to persuade a guy to start a pet, it is necessary to understand: his reluctance lies precisely in dislike for animals or for this there are other reasons. Ask the guy what exactly the pet interferes with and ask him to give you a reasoned and clear answer. Depending on what he says, you can make plans how to persuade him to get the animal you want.
The reasons and options can be set. The most banal of them - the guy is allergic. This problem really becomes the reason why a man does not want to have an animal at home. But still a young man can be persuaded. Just need to choose the animal that it will survive, even if it is allergic. Most often unpleasant sensations are caused by the wool of cats. In this case, you can offer a breed like the Sphinx. Such cats may not look as beautiful as the fluffy Persians, but they do not cause an allergic reaction. Of course, many girls like fuzzy, but you want to have an animal in your house that loves you, but the way it looks is not so important.
Another good reason for a guy can be your employment. Perhaps he does not want to take an animal into the house for the reason that you will not have time to clean and walk after him. If you often leave, then no one will feed him and follow him. In this case, in order to persuade him, you need to convince the young man that you can take full responsibility for the pet. And you really have to fulfill your promise. Therefore, before you have a cat or dog, decide if you can constantly clean, walk, watch the animal. If the cat is not yet such a problematic pet, then the dog will have to suffer. Remember that you have to get up early in the morning and walk the dog, and after work, instead of having a rest, you'll have to go for a walk again. Your boyfriend, most likely, understands this perfectly, that's why he resists the animal in your house. He does not want to deal with it, but does not want the animal to suffer. Therefore, a cat or dog will appear to you only if you can convince him and prove that you are a fully responsible person who will not leave the animal to the mercy of fate. And if you leave, then you always have a person who can give the animal time so that it does not get bored, feed it, take it away and walk. If you also promised your mother once, but then did nothing, do not expect that this number will pass with a young man. Women simply become more attached to animals, but with men it is so infrequent. Therefore, if you do not follow the pet, most likely, it will simply be on the street. In order not to expose an innocent animal to such mockery, it is better to abandon this idea immediately.
If the guy simply does not like animals, then you need to gradually instill in him a feeling of affection for them. In fact, although not all animals, but some of them always cause a feeling of tenderness in any person. Pay attention to which animals the guy reacts best, and then try to organize as often as possible contact with such animals. Just do not need to carry a kitten or a puppy into the house and categorically state that he will live with you. This will lead to a scandal, and the animal, most likely, will be on the street. Act wisely. When you come to your friends, focus on their pets, try to make sure that the guy took the cat in his arms or stroked the dog. In addition, show him how much you do not have a kitten or a puppy at home and how happy you will be if he appears. If you are walking, as though by the way, go to the bird market. Small animals touch everyone. Looking at them, talk about how you dream, so that it appeared in your house and how much joy it will bring. Over time, the young man will start to think about whether he is so against having a fluffy lump in your house. Most likely, it will take a little time and he decides to make you pleasant and will allow an animal to live with you.
But, if the guy still completely refuses to take a cat or a dog, then try to solve the matter by compromise. There are other animals that can be kept at home, but they do not require special care. These include mice, hamsters and chinchillas. Such an animal will never disturb you, but you will know that there is something alive at home, soft and fluffy. Of course, the mouse is not a kitty, but it can also be trained so that he will see in you the mistress and even in his own way to love. In addition, a living being in the house will help a guy get used to animals, and eventually he will agree to the pet that you really dreamed of.
The main thing is not to turn this problem into the cause of all scandals. Of course, you want an animal in the house and it's your right. But your boyfriend has every right not to want it. Agree, if you, for example, do not like bats, and your boyfriend will persuade you to keep such a little animal alive, you will also refuse. Naturally, we can say that a cat is not a bat. It is much better and more beautiful. But for someone, the mouse can become the most beloved pet. That's why someone else's opinion and desires should always be respected. And if the guy flatly refuses to start an animal - still try to reconcile with it. In the end, your relationship is more important than a cat or a dog in the house.