But, unfortunately, not many can accept and believe in love. Most people constantly demand to prove their love - they arrange tests to check feelings.
First love. You throw yourself into this wonderful feeling, like in a whirlpool with your head. In the soul lives and glow the confidence that this is true love for life. But, you are breaking up. Then comes the second love, the third. After a lapse of time, having experienced both happy minutes and moments of grief and disappointment, your heart is covered with a protective crust. It's not surprising that you can barely open up to a new relationship and wait for proof of love. So it happens with the guys. I will say more that they are more vulnerable.
Everyone dreams to hear words about love. But at the same time, when this moment comes, you do not have enough of these words. You crave for evidence.
Prove your love for a guy like this? How can you prove love at all?
Can feelings be equated to the number of gifts? Love, first of all, includes trust and sincerity. If a person requires you to prove your feelings - It's more likely that he does not trust you at all and does not believe in your sincerity.
What can speak better about sincerity of feelings than caring, tenderness and attention towards a loved one. Gifts should also be from the pure not of the heart, and not be beaten literally with a stick.
When you love, you will tolerate all the wishes of a loved one. As if you were not difficult and can sometimes hurt - you'll be looking for more and more ways how to prove your love for the guy. But, the question is in another - how much will you have enough? And will you be happy with that guy who is too mercantile to treat your relationship. Mercantility is expressed not only in presenting gifts. Relations and love - this is when people both give all themselves, in return, not demanding anything. But, when the guy constantly says that he does not believe in your feelings, but you are laid out to the full and, literally, "beat your head on the ice" to prove to him that you love, is this sincere love? Is this not a manifestation of selfishness on the part of your young man?
Why not just surrender to love and enjoy each other?
I will give you an example of one story. Initially, she was told precisely on behalf of a young man, participant in this story.
A young couple. They loved each other. And, as the young man himself admits, everything was fine in their relationship, until they wanted to start proving their love for each other.
The first evidence was rather a joke. They looked like this: he made her look like at a party he pestered her friends; Hold your hand over the fire or make a puncture in the most intimate place. The girl went for all the tests, like a real Spartan.
It each time fulfilled its increasingly immoral requirements. He believed that it means she loves. In return, he also had to endure the various tortures that his girlfriend thought out.
The most recent test for the girl was separation. The young man considered that separation is the most beautiful proof of that. That she loved him.
They still have feelings for each other, but stupid principles do not allow them to be together.
Is it possible to call a relationship love when your partner deliberately pushes you to suffering and anguish?
It's stupid. To love means to trust. If you are asked to prove your love for a guy, then run away from him where your eyes look. You are worthy, to be loved. When you meet your destiny, you will understand that love does not require proof.