Of course, we must admit that the strange behavior and actions of the second half can not always be understood, and sometimes it is explained. And, by the way, not only women, but also men. What is the reason for the strange behavior of men? Yes, everything is in the same notorious gender difference, about which so often experts say. Take at least a computer tomography of the opposite sex. The differences are obvious, however, not everyone can explain them.
For a long time, the American philosopher and family therapist Michael Gurian (Michael Gurian), author of "What Does He Think? "How does the man's brain really work?", He studied various parts of the brain, in particular, responsible for the emotional state of a person, and came to surprising conclusions. It turns out that the male brain produces less neurohormones than the female brain. Speech about oxytocin and serotonin, one responsible for a sense of attachment, the other has a calming effect. It turns out, who is to blame for the fact that after work, the strongmen of this world would like to lie on the couch with the TV remote control, and not take part in the discussion of how the day went and what to cook for dinner.
If women can not do without verbal communication, then men are often laconic and mean to emotions. It is these features that are guilty of the fact that they sometimes simply "hang", while you share with them something of an intimate and important. You will be surprised, but at this moment your companion does not think in life, about a beer or a new employee. He does not think about anything at all. It's hard to believe, but it's a fact. To go crazy and to beat the dishes is not worth it, it is still unknown whether it's really bad - this is his strange behavior. The ability to completely "turn off" and relax at home, as a rule, results in high productivity in the workplace. Hormones, testosterone and vasopressin are responsible for the fact that a man is in constant professional search and seeks to prove his superiority. According to the scientist, in many cases this is most clearly manifested after the birth of the child.
The special structure of the brain is also the reason that the male half of the population does not notice a lot of interesting details on our, female, look. In this category, as a rule, includes a new hairstyle, manicure and business home. It seems that it will not turn out radically. To arrange a scandal is simply useless, the man's brain will not take it, but resort to small tricks and, in case of which, to refer to his own uniqueness, proven by the lights of science, it is possible. True, it is better not to overdo it, but to try to find the right approach to each other and a reasonable compromise, after all, harmony in relationships is more important than an open toilet lid or an open tube of toothpaste, and the differences between a man and a woman are much greater than that seen on an x-ray snapshot.
And if you ignore the accumulated claims and objectively look at things, is not everyone entitled to personal time and personal space? After all, as psychologists say, living together is a clash of two worlds designed to create a common culture, and not vice versa.