The very first thing that comes to your mind when you realize that your husband starts to drink not only on holidays, but also on weekdays, is a divorce, but you need to adequately realize that this is not the only way out. The woman is also a man, she is looking for the easiest way out of the situation, the husband finds him in the bottle, and the wife in peace is divorced from an alcoholic. But this is not always a way out, of course it's so much easier and so much easier. Or maybe try to help your beloved husband, although now it's hard to call him your favorite, but still.
The most important thing is that you must learn, if you do not want your husband to drink, try to walk less for guests, or go to those guests who do not start drinking alcohol from the threshold. Do not arrange such holidays at home, tell your friends that you have a dry law in your house right now. If they are your true friends, they will understand you. and if friends are imaginary, then why are they needed?
The next rule is to look at the problem from the inside out, think that the husband does not start drinking just like that, there are always reasons for this. Men they are like children, very vulnerable, very close to the heart perceive all problems, if they do not understand it at home, then he goes either to friends to sit at a bottle, or finds himself a mistress. Your husband chose the first solution to all problems, began to drink. When he is sober, try to learn about his problems laconically, that he is so oppressed. Remember, since when he began to apply so much to the bottle, when a simple friendly conversation over a bottle of good wine, turned into a race for alcohol. What caused such degradation of a once normal person? That's when you analyze your whole life with your husband, talk to him heart to heart, that's when maybe there is an answer to your question. Become for him for this period of adaptation - mom. You do not leave your child to the mercy of fate, so you do not have to leave your husband, only you can help him.
Of course, there is still a way out - coding from alcohol dependence. But there it is worthwhile to go only when your husband confesses to himself that he has become an alcoholic. That his drunkenness destroys everything around him, family, work, close friends begin to turn away from him. Again, you must help him, become a psychologist for him. But coding from alcohol dependence is not always an option. A year later, your husband can drink again and even more, and can break and can not stand the time.
To understand how to deal with the drunkenness of a husband, you must first understand the cause. Then look for effects on it. And most importantly, be sure of your abilities, whether you will be able to compete for your husband. Believe it, and you will succeed.