Divorce after constant changes

Since childhood, we have instilled some ideals on the basis of which families of our parents, grandparents are built. We look at whether our relatives are happy, following these ideals and draw conclusions.

Maybe, unfortunately, it happens that the girl, it would seem, has such a happy marriage, but suddenly he gives a break. It seems to be everything: both a wedding with a car, and a dress of unreal beauty, and the bride is beautiful unusually, but ... then, after some time of cloudless (or not quite cloudless - to anyone how lucky) life, the wife learns that her husband changed her . It can be, as in a bad anecdote, when a wife returns from work (business trip, shop, rest, etc.) before and finds in her bed, some unknown person, and, perhaps, treason pops up in everyday life. Feelings that a deceived woman experiences is difficult to describe. It is a mixture of rage, anger, resentment, jealousy, a thirst for vengeance ... Here is such a horrible cocktail. So there are women - only for them, perhaps, experience such mixed feelings. But the most disgusting is despair. It seems that the world has stopped and does not move, but when it comes to go, it's not quite as bright as before. This is called depression.

Some women decide to divorce after the betrayal of her husband. They firmly believe that they will bring the process of divorce to the end, and they will not forgive such baseness in their address. But the woman is emotional and inclined to cool down quickly. Although it is possible that she will harbor resentment and will wait for the case to take revenge. This also happens. But we are now dealing with cases that are typical of the majority.

So, time passes and if the husband insistently talks about his unearthly love, then, it is likely, his wife will forgive. This applies to the fact of a single betrayal. A very small percentage of women divorce after a single case. Almost everyone wants but does not lead a divorce to the end.

Then the situation becomes more complicated. Men, they, for the most part, do not change, going once to the left (especially since they understood that they forgave him and, in fact, nothing terrible happened), he most likely will decide on treason again. This does not mean that his wife does not like it, it means that a person does not have enough thrills in life, but do you, dear women, need to be a tool to raise the level of adrenaline in your husband's blood?

Many women still decide to divorce after frequent changes. Depressed to a depressed state, they understand that they can no longer tolerate the meanness of a loved one and are divorced after betraying her husband. This can be very painful and the woman's state of mind remains depressed for a very long time. She thinks: "Did I do the right thing by parting with this person? But what if everything had become different? "It would not have happened. And they perfectly understand this reason, but the woman's heart is always ready to forgive. However, divorce after adultery, as a rule, is inevitable, if a woman, of course, still has a sense of self-worth.

To talk about divorce after constant betrayals, initiated by the husband, but changed, therefore, the wife, makes sense only in isolated cases. Because men are somewhat different and betrayals usually do not forgive. A husband can continue to live with his wife in such a situation, but deep down, he will never forgive her and divorce sooner or later will take place. The woman herself will not stand the constant psychological pressure, which her husband will satisfy after betrayal, even after forgiving her. Strangely enough in such families, the initiator of the divorce is a woman, unable to withstand emotional pressure.

Divorce after constant changes happen almost always. Because, who would not say anything, but the ideals of all are one: a strong family without deception. And there are men and women who do not change each other and live happily ever after. The main thing is to stop in time and understand what is most valuable in life ....