I want to get married

From the very early childhood, all the girls dream of a beautiful prince, a wedding dress and a luxurious wedding . With age, dreams become more realistic. The fairy-tale characters are replaced by a neighbor from the opposite apartment, a classmate or colleague from another department, but dreams remain as rosy as they were in childhood. But, I think, even the most inveterate feminists at heart would like to get married and create their own family comfort. This was the theme of my current amateur theses.


Any real woman, whether she is ten or ninety years old, has her little female secrets and tricks. Millions of women ask themselves the same questions every day: how to like your beloved? How to marry that single and not make a mistake in your choice?


Secrets of building relationships, family psychology and answers to age-old women's issues - this is what will help any woman to become more confident in herself and in her abilities, better understand the representatives of the opposite sex. One of the main "women's secrets" is that men love only those girls who love themselves.

Television programs, numerous glossy editions and thick books on psychology are full of headlines: "Where to find happiness?", "How to build a family happiness ?". Going on the quest for happiness, one should not forget that someone needs a roof over his head and the sun in the sky to feel the joy and bliss, and someone wants to make dreams come true in an eye-popping career, an abundance of money, jewelry and other material goods. As one very wise person said, if you want to be happy - be it! A stamp in a passport is not a panacea for sadness, sadness and dissatisfaction in life. "I want to get married," many women assert, hoping that the faithful husband and his immense love will give them the long-awaited family well-being. For happiness, as well as for love, it is necessary to fight. Where there is happiness, there is love, thinks most modern women, waiting for the initiative in this matter from their second half. But if you could not give yourself happiness, then hardly make your beloved man happy, and all the long-awaited dreams of a family can remain only a dream. The most correct answer to the question: "Where is happiness?" Reads as follows: "Happiness is within us."

I like the joke. Daughter comes home in the morning. An angry mother asks her where she was all night? And she answers thoughtfully: "Do you remember, mother, did you tell me that the way to the heart of a man lies through his stomach? So, I found a shorter way. "

Some believe that in love, as in war, all means are good. Probably, this is not so. Love does not know the chains. I'm talking about all kinds of spells, conspiracies and other otherworldly alchemy. It would be foolish to say that it does not work. I read a lot of letters from repentant ladies, who at one time resorted to the services of witches or sorceresses. In the end, none of the women who wrote love is not happy. Over time, their personal lives turned into a kind of hell.

What conclusion does this lead to? Perhaps, first of all, we should believe in ourselves, in our strengths, our attractiveness and individuality. And a miracle will happen! Because life is an amazing harmony of forces, albeit sometimes not subject to human logic.


Dmitry Krivitsky