In relationships there are always moments of passion and moments of cooling. Sometimes it seems to us that love has passed and we begin to do ill-considered actions, and when we think about it it's getting late. But still, can I return a loved one or is it completely unrealistic? As you know, if you want something with all your heart, then the whole world will help you. Just need to understand the situation, admit their mistakes and understand how to get everything back.
What to do and how to act if you want to return your loved one? We will try to consider the main reasons why we lose loved ones and determine how we can get out of situations.
Be True
So, one of the most common reasons that many people lose a loved one is treason. If you want to return a loved one after being changed to him, then first you need to understand why you took this step. Perhaps you were missing something in a relationship or a young man committed acts that offended you. In this case, before deciding to return it, once again think carefully about whether you need it. Perhaps you are just used to it, but in fact, if you return such relationships, sooner or later you will again go to such a step. However, in case you know exactly what you made a mistake, and this guy is the one you want to spend your whole life with, then you need to win his trust. After treason it is very difficult to believe in words, no matter how eloquent you were. Therefore, it remains only to confirm everything by actions, not to put pressure on a young person and not to rush. Remember that you hurt him. Therefore, he needs time to survive and let go. And your task is to understand that you repent and you will never go to such a step again. He should see that you no longer need anyone and you are ready to keep him faithful, even if you are not together.
Accept the way it is
Another reason for parting, which later regret girls - it's incompatibility. The ladies start to think that he and the guy just can not get along together, that they do not fit together. For example, a young man is silent and calm, and the girl seems that she will be bored with him, that she will not survive until the end of her life. She begins to try to change it, it does not work and in the end they part. But over time, the lady realizes that she does not care whether he is silent or not, because in his rare "I love you" there is a great feeling and desire to do everything for her. But time is lost and the guy has already come to the conclusion that nothing will turn out. In this case, you need to prove to him that you accept him as he is. Moreover, he must understand that his character and behavior do not hurt you, on the contrary, you like that he is just that. After all, you fell in love with him. In this case, you first need to establish friendly contact and gradually show him that you like being with him, you like his character and behavior. Remember that you do not just have to put up with his worldview, you really have to accept it. Otherwise, sooner or later you will fail and he will finally make sure that your roads can not cross. And always remember that it takes a lot of time to get everything back to square one. You do not have to behave in a way, agree with everything in it, and so on. Just stop criticizing him, getting angry and irritated. Learn to feel like him. And if you really feel happiness from hanging out with a young man, he will also feel it and eventually will understand that he is not a bad party for you.
In any case, whatever happens between you and your young man, always remember that everything takes time. Sometimes very much time. The main thing is not to lose contact with him. If you are near and will show him your true feelings, but do not impose, then over time he will reconsider his attitude to the situation. Just never give up if you really love. Maybe a month will pass, maybe a year, but in the end you will hear from him again "I love you, my little one."