Many women, just like men, do not aspire to fall into a love triangle, despite the fundamental changes in society associated with sexual revolutions, the substitution of morals broadcast in the media, the imposed notion of the decline of the authority of the family. Reason and common sense tell us how to live.
As a rule, love triangles quickly break up, especially if married men are in this system. They crash literally at the root of their occurrence. There are times when such triangles exist for a long time, but often after betrayal by one of the spouses, values are reassessed, a turning point is coming. And it is rare that after the "disclosure of all cards" the man remained in the family, more often the family disintegrates. The collapse of the love triangle usually occurs from the moment of detection of the fact of adultery by the lawful wife. Rare cases when a relationship with a married man can last for years.
It happens that all three are silent, knowing about the existence of a triangle. The struggle for a man can last many, many years. In this case, only the man will be the winner in this struggle, while the women will not take either the winning side or the loser. The love triangle can destroy only one who is in it in the singular. If this is a relationship with a married man, only he is able to influence and determine the situation - or finish the relationship in a triple alliance or "sob" in it a little more. How to forget your beloved man, if he is married?
It's harder to stop the relationship and try to forget the beloved married man, if the woman is in such a triangle for a long time. And it's not just a link to the beloved, but also to women's self-esteem, because a man has to "share" with a rival. But still take a decisive step to get out of the coil, it's worth it. There are several principles on which the relationship of a woman with a married man is built. If you decide to forget your favorite man and besides, if he is married, you should follow some recommendations.
The first thing that should be paid attention - not every woman is able to fall in love with a man who is married. Remember your past, analyze the situation of your parents, their relationship to each other. Perhaps the word "love" causes you not quite light feelings, but is associated with something that destroys, brings pain. Therefore, you are trying to find a man who would help you reproduce the picture of the relationship in your childhood in the parents' home. Therefore, you are purposefully looking for a "problem" man. From habits it is necessary and it is necessary to get rid. It is necessary to gain resolve and deal with the burden of the past. Then you have the opportunity to give up a relationship with a married man. If in your past parents did not become for you an example of bringing up good, bright feelings within the family, and their relationship was confusing, then perhaps you should contact a professional psychologist who will help you solve this issue.
The next thing to keep in mind for women who decided to forget their beloved man, who is married, is the question of increasing their self-esteem. Did you know that a relationship with a man with a ring on his right hand is a powerful blow to women's vanity? Did not know, but felt. It happens that women in such novels initially have low self-esteem. A woman feels stupid, ugly, unworthy to become the most desirable and unique for her chosen one. As soon as unbelief in oneself awakens, so much is cultivated the problems that only strengthen this unbelief. That is, the situation goes: the less a woman loves herself, she respects, the more often she has problematic men.
Men like to brag about the number of seduced women and can have a romance with not one or two women, and even more, thereby fueling your dissatisfaction. They just give an excuse to emphasize at a convenient opportunity, as they saved you from loneliness with your attention and sensitive attitude. Therefore, after such a relationship with married men, women need a whole program to reincarnate their respect and love for themselves. In such situations, start by making a list of the two types of people in your life - those people whom you consider friends, loved ones, who take you whole heart as it is, and those who can be called emotional vampires. They feed on your energy when they offend you and expose you in a bad light, enjoy your confusion or awkward situation, trying to look better on your background. Try to strictly filter the circle of communication on the first time (maybe a month or two), when you have finished the relationship with a married man - this will help you to restore self-esteem. Your spiritual support and close friends will be people from the first list. With those whom you put on the second list, stop communicating at all, do not let them appear in your life.
For a woman, dealing with a man is always a test, and if he is married, doubly test. In such novels, you can usually get both happiness and pleasure, and untold pain and suffering. It is necessary to stop all the same in time and find the strength to stop such relationships, because the prospects for a happy end are very, very small.