Mistakes in the wife's behavior.
It often happens that the spouses are embarrassed to tell friends or colleagues about where their second half works. If the husband occupies a leading position, it was unavoidable for him to have a wife-trafficker. Gradually, a man begins to develop complex and irritation to his wife - "loser". And women suffer. What a pity that in our country so far many wives put themselves "in the background", assigning the first role to her husband. What a pity that Russian women have not learned to love themselves. And they tolerate this behavior of men.
If such a situation has arisen in your family, in no case does it build "sagging" under her husband even more. That will not help! Rather, on the contrary, will cause pity for a man who will quickly be replaced by even more irritation.
By this behavior, the husband shows that the current situation does not suit him. Only he himself can not figure out whether he is embarrassed by his wife's job or that she is not a "blonde with the fifth breast size, like Ivan Ivanovich from a subsidiary company."
Once again I want to emphasize that if you start even more "please your beloved", then this is the direct way to divorce. Let's see why.
First of all, you must understand that once a man has changed his status, then the environment is also changed. Now he has to comply with the new rules in the company. If you can not change and "adjust" to this situation, then most likely, your husband will find himself a "wife by status." And it will happen very quickly. "Hunters for the state" in our time is very much.
Your "kneeling" behavior will only speed up the process of finding a new wife. In fact, he already perceives you as a servant. If you feel that you have climbed into these jungles, it's time to get out of them. You are not a servant, but a wife!
How to behave correctly.
To begin with, you must understand and realize that now your husband is an important and serious person. And you, as a wife, must comply with it. Therefore, it's time to change and become that same "status woman" for your husband so that he does not have to, do not want to look for a new one.
Remember that you are not a servant, you are an equal member of the family. Moreover, you are the queen for your king. Do not go on tiptoe and do not say "yes, dear, good, dear." Let the husband treat you as before. After all, it was you who were with him in the most difficult times.
Look at yourself in the mirror, look at your cozy home, at the lovely children. How could a bad wife organize all this? You are the greatest value for your husband! Love yourself again!
Good for raising self-esteem is a shopping trip, chatting with girlfriends, playing games with children and everything that brings you pleasure. Spend the whole day alone with yourself, only doing pleasant things.
Change your appearance, change the wardrobe. Since you are now the wife of a successful person, you should look like you are accordingly. Besides, what can be more pleasant than a whole day spent in a beauty salon, when several masters are wooing you? Or shopping in the most exquisite stores? I'm sure that my husband will be happy to allocate a large amount of money for your "reincarnation".
You can engage in a dense career. Undoubtedly, the active activity of the wife, will raise her self-esteem and make her husband respect her work. Will the children left in the care of nannies suffer in this situation?
Do not let your husband offend you! Do not offend him yourself. Do not argue and do not find out the relationship, in the heat of anger you can tell each other a lot of superfluous things.
A promotion for your husband is of great importance, but you will have to work hard on yourself and over your relationships if you want to save the family and live the rest of your life