A row in the family

You rarely meet a family that does not know what it is, a quarrel in the family. When a quarrel with a loved one occurs, it is very unpleasant. Psychologists were able to find out the main reasons for the quarrels in the family. Knowing the causes of quarrels, you can prevent these quarrels or reduce them to a minimum.

Often the cause of a quarrel appears when partners do not respect each other. You do not even notice how you offend, offend and belittle your partner's self-esteem. Also, if you start not to trust each other, you begin to control the actions of a person close to you and are constantly jealous without a reason.

The frequent cause of a quarrel is the lack of romance in a relationship. When you first started dating, there was always romance in your relationship, but after a while it began to disappear. You forget what flirting is, stop building eyes to your husband, he does not give you that attention that was before. You stop watching your appearance and you can even not pay attention that you go around the house in a dirty robe.

Everyone has ideas about family life. And when you, entering into family life, you come across a discrepancy of the reality of your expectations about family life. This is the reason for your quarrels. And also lack of tenderness, understanding, care, all this leads to conflicts in your family.

Also, a quarrel in the family can occur because of the inflated demands that the partners make to each other.

When partners spend their free time boringly and monotonously, without vivid emotions. And if they spend their vacation away from each other, this can also lead to quarrels in the family.

If you have a quarrel in the family, try to replace it with a dispute. After all, a dispute, this is a respectful relationship to each other. But in any case, do not go to the clarification of the person. The main purpose of the quarrel will be to humiliate your partner, i.e. break his will. And in this quarrel there will be no winners, but only both partners will be losers. Therefore, you need to learn to argue, and not quarrel and you will notice how you can facilitate your family life.

Try to avoid understatement. Psychologists were able to find out that those spouses who are frank with each other are much happier than those who are silent and do not tell their thoughts to each other.

Let your family have as few quarrels as possible.