So, in order to force a guy to get a good specialty, he needs arguments that he can not refute. In order to know how to make the guys get higher education, one must understand the motivation and psychology of their actions. First, all men are very ambitious. Even those who seem to be quiet and reserved modest people, in fact, also want to achieve a lot in life. It's just that you can rarely hear from such a guy, because he is embarrassed or simply does not want to talk about his goals. Why do young people do not want to receive higher education? Perhaps your boyfriend thinks that he simply can not get a seat at the department that interests him. In this case, try to argue with him. In the end, none of you lose anything. Invite the young man to go to university and take the entrance exams. If it does not work out - then you lost. Of course, you have to do this only when you see that the guy really has enough knowledge. It is not necessary to send a person to this test, knowing that he can not act. Guys are very gambling people. Most likely, he will succumb to the provocation and agree. In this case, half the case is already done. Now it is necessary to make him prepare for the exams, because no matter how smart a person is, he still needs to repeat the material and refresh it in memory. For a young man to study material, you can also use a system of prizes and promises. Of course, you know what you can please your loved one, not to the detriment of you. So, promise him various pleasant surprises, in return for another repeated chapter or a solved task. If, thanks to your efforts, a young man can get exactly that education, about which he dreamed, then you will become for him a real fairy, to which he will be very grateful.
Also, some young people believe that they will be able to find a job without a diploma. With these too, it is necessary to argue and motivate to enter the university. For example, you can invite him to try to find a job, but not any, but with a decent salary and which will satisfy his ambitions, for a certain period. If he can not do this, then he must go to higher education and get the specialty that will help him in this. Most likely, a young man will not be able to find a decent job, because, no matter what, it is necessary to be a genius to hit employers, having only a secondary education. After several interviews, your boyfriend will be convinced that not everything is so simple and he will think about the fact that good life requires good knowledge and education.
Some guys argue their reluctance to learn that a university teaches many subjects that they are not interested in, or they already know it. In this case, you can also find a way out. For example, now there are higher education institutions, in which only profiling subjects are taught. Of course, some believe that the diploma of such an institution or academy can not compete with the state, but, in fact, there are worthy institutions whose graduates have a good job and a corresponding salary, and most importantly, they work in their specialty. In this case, you need to collect as much information from reliable sources and determine which educational institution of your city is right for your loved one.
One more option is correspondence education. In this case, the young man does not have to spend a lot of time studying, but at the same time, having enough knowledge, he can improve them and get a diploma.
By the way, you yourself should also set an example for imitation. Therefore, if you are still studying, you can from time to time call him to the university, introduce them to classmates. Let your young man understand that student life is interesting and fun. If you have already finished your studies, try to find a good job in your specialty. This will be the best proof that the diploma really has a price. Your young man must understand that, only after receiving a normal education, he will be able to support his family, and, most importantly, to satisfy his ambitions and enjoy the work. In addition, it is the diploma that allows you to move along the career ladder. Therefore, even if you do not always have an easy time at work, try not to tell him about it. It is better to mention from time to time those who have received education and achieve success, as well as those who, being an intellectual, but not having a diploma, work for pennies for the most primitive specialties. Even if your boyfriend pretends to be uninteresting, in fact he will, willy-nilly, listen and rethink information. And if you also connect people with this opinion, with the opinion of which he is always considered, then soon the young man will seriously think about higher education and go to submit documents to the university.