If a man after sex does not offer a second date

Each day devoting enough time to his figure, to how we look, what we wear, what we are talking about - we do this for a reason, but for us to be appreciated and we were able to catch this fish for our bait. After all, each lady wants to know what is under the layer of appetizing glaze, maybe, it is expected not less than a double portion of delicious filling. But if you taste this sweet stuff, we get a serving of salt? What to do, think and act, if a man after sex does not offer a second date?

There is no perfection in the world. Especially in the world of men. Everyone makes mistakes, especially men - this must be understood. How to understand if a man after sex does not offer a second date? Perhaps you thought about this option. After all, how else could it be if you met in the evening in a club, restaurant, at a party with friends. You followed the theory - it's better the awkwardness of the sutra than the night alone. Excellent time, or rather night. Has overtaken an emotional pressure after labor everyday, has felt the appeal and that that you still is capable to break the guy at first sight. You knew that this would not lead to anything serious, but as it turned out, you can not escape from subconscious desires. Every girl wants to feel protected, necessary. The desire that he suddenly remains for another day, or calls, does not leave you all night. And in the end - he collects things, leaves and does not even say "I'll see you again!". What if the man does not offer a second date after sex? Leave these childhood illusions and understand, casual sex does not lead to anything serious.

But still, if you think that it was not a pleasure for one night, then get together! Be decisive! If the guy did not leave any information about himself, then try to find him, ask through friends, who can know who he is and where. Visit again, the institution where you met, maybe he's a regular there. And seeing him again, do not be confused, come with a smile, say hello, maybe the conversation will start, he will remember you and he will be interested in the second date. If you do not see any effective deeds from him, step over your pride and try to invite him to see you again. Suddenly relations will develop, or, at least, there will be a proven applicant for meetings in a neutral territory. In any case, make this situation profitable for yourself.

It's another matter when you have a relationship. And like it would be love, with all these candy-bouquet periods. You do not want to hurry, so you postpone the moment of your intimacy, you want this to happen in a special way. Perhaps, it will be timed to the month of your relationship, to some holiday, or maybe it will be a nice addition to a good evening. In any case, no matter how, you expect that everything will be chic and it will only improve your relationship. And as a result, your man after sex does not even offer a second date. What does it mean? Well, what's there to do. All men want from pretty girls only one, and whether you like this truth or not, it's your own business. Perhaps he was with you, because you attracted him and he wanted, however, it was insulting and trite - sex. There's nothing to be done, I'll have to accept it.

But what if he did not offer a second date after sex, because you were not good enough in bed? And how to find out? Try to contact the guy by phone, meet and talk. Discuss with him his deed. If you still understand the reason for this, try hinting to him that you are still that thing and capable of much, just from not knowing the partner in bed, you did not know how to act better with him. Try to organize another meeting and prove to the guy that in bed you are a craftsman and you can surprise him, then you will not notice how he will crave meetings. But do not forget to prepare in advance. After all, it seems like no one wants to appear unskillful for the second time. Remember that you will always get help from women's magazines and websites where you can read, and sometimes even in pictures to see how to behave better. And do not forget about the fitness of the pelvic part, with a good training of pelvic muscles, sensations improve during sex, both for you and for the partner, be sure - he will appreciate.

And what if the man after sex does not offer a second date, and this man is your friend? If it turned out that in a whirlwind of fine mood, during the rest at a classy party with friends who understandably do not go without alcohol, it so happened that you and your friend slept. A little uncomfortable situation came out. And you, as always in your female nature, start to think that this means something. And maybe he likes me and everything did not just happen, just sober, he could not persevere, with about like thoughts you're hammering your head. And he, perhaps, thinks as if this incident did not affect your further friendly relations. And begins to behave either as if nothing had happened, or even disappears for a while. This behavior pushes you on even deeper thoughts, why does not he offer a second date after your sex. Cast aside naivete and act. Try flirting with a friend, if it is of course pleasant to you, shoot with eyes, as any girl can do. Agree on the meeting, and why not. After all, you first of all remain friends, that between you nor be. Perhaps try to discuss with him what happened and find out how he relates to this, because you will not spoil friendship, but suddenly he was afraid of the reverse consequences and it was for this reason that he lay down on the bottom. If so, then let him know that in this you do not see anything wrong. Maybe you will agree on trying to build a relationship, maybe that's what you did not need. It can happen and so everything will turn out smart and you will have an excellent relationship. And if this does not work out, you can now move to a different level of relations, that is, friendship. And why not become bed friends, you can help a friend and in physiological needs, while doing well and yourself.

In any case, whatever the situation with you does not happen, remember that it's not they who choose us, but we them. Therefore, the point in the development of events after sex is put only by you.