How to identify what will lead to an office novel?

Very many women faced service novels. It happens that office romances end with weddings, and sometimes with divorces. Someone after these novels was completely disappointed, and someone was very happy with them. But any woman would like to know what will end for her office romance and what it will lead to.

According to the research, 50% of office workers started their novels with their colleagues at work and many of the novels ended in weddings. All the people spend most of their time at work. Because of stress, fatigue, routine, we begin to look for an outlet in our colleagues.

We will try to consider all the situations that lead us to an office novel. And we will tell you how to recognize what a service romance will lead us to.

1. Sex for a couple of times.

Such relationships are most often associated with corporate parties. Your work colleague suddenly starts to pay more attention to you and suddenly noticed that you are the most beautiful woman in this evening. You start to reciprocate him, because to this person you have never experienced anything bad. After that, you start drinking together, and he offers you to stay home. What happens next, I think, you know. And do not expect a long relationship, since it's unlikely that you have your first and last colleague with whom he will have sex, most likely it happens very often.

How to recognize?

You must be prepared for the fact that tomorrow your colleague will switch to another woman. Decide for yourself, are you ready to rush headlong into this pool and how well do you know your colleague at work? Do you need this fleeting passion? If you need adrenaline and sex for one night, then I think you know what to do, and you do not need advice.

2. A short affair.

Most often, such a relationship can begin with the usual offer to treat a cigarette or make tea.

Such relationships suddenly break out, while surprising the surrounding and lovers themselves, but also quickly and pass.

How to recognize?

In your relations you do not give any guarantees how long your relationship will last. You do not tell me if you have someone else. You enjoy each other and do not hurry to let each other into your life. Also, you do not know anything at all about your colleague, and how he lives.

3. Relationships only at work.

Very often there are novels at work, as the couple spend most of their time at work. Many like to have sex at work or just flirt and kiss in places that are not designed for that.

Of course, such novels can not lead to anything serious. And such a relationship you can have with every third colleague at work.

How to recognize?

Usually in such relationships, men rarely call women during their off hours and do not build joint plans for the weekend. And even if a man is single, you may notice that for him your relationship is simply an addition to his gray working days.

You must decide for yourself that for you it is only a service romance. But, and if you want a serious relationship, you need to immediately talk to him and do not make plans that might collapse in a moment.

Decide for yourself what you need more. Perhaps, you yourself need this relationship only at work?

4. Long-term relationship.

Long-term relationships between colleagues at work always develop in different ways. But we will tell you about more successful novels later. And now we will tell you what can serve as a rupture of your relationship.

1. Your life is always in sight.

2. Your work will become the main component of your personal life and apart from talking about work you will not have anything, which is unlikely to please anyone.

3. In a short time, you will begin to be jealous of your partner to other co-workers. And where there is jealousy, there begins to disappear feelings and love.

How to recognize?

You begin to feel that you are very well with your colleague at work and after the working day ends, you do not want to part with it.

You start to visit each other and start to get acquainted with his relatives, you have a common past and memories.

5. Office romance, which ends with a wedding.

You realized that you love each other and were able to overcome all difficulties.

How to recognize?

You have many common plans, you are planning for your future general vacation. You feel comfortable with each other. You know all the pros and cons of your lover and they do not create problems for you.

You were able to overcome all the talk at work, about your novel and that did not affect and did not spoil your relationship.

But mostly office novels rarely grow into a marriage between people. Men do not take seriously office romances and for them it's rather pleasant time-passing.

We hope that you now know how to recognize what the office novel will lead to.