This issue is still quite relevant. After all, in most cases after the quarrel the first step to the conflict settlement is done by women. Men, to the extent of their pride, sit in the so-called "ambush" and simply wait for the fact that the woman still realizes her wrong and tries to change something herself. And at this stage it does not really matter who is right and who is to blame. And who even initiated this quarrel. Call first - this is not a male skate. It's worth remembering that guys and men are emotionally restrained and sitting with the phone in their hand, waiting for a call all night long, is not their prerogative at all. He can simply quite well disengage himself from this problem by visiting a bar with friends. Or just go with them on the same, for example, fishing. And that in fact he will have a going on in his soul, this will not disturb anyone at all, just as the male ego is always above all else. And here it is the culmination of the moment: the phone rang and the number on your display lights up. Of course, he certainly waited for this, but I will not tire of repeating that the man is a selfish, selfish and proud being. And, however paradoxical it may sound, but plus to everything, even with the vice of an eternal child, in the depths of his soul. And run headlong to the phone, he in six out of ten cases does not become. He does not need a call, he just asks that you really think twice about what is wrong. And, also, it began to consciously cherish him as a man. Now, just in time, it was his turn to play the "offended boy". Men are powerful manipulators and it is always worth considering. Believe me, he flattered noticeably that you are calling, but that's not enough. You have to worry about the fact that you can just lose it. And this, in his opinion, will be a true and useful lesson for you in the future. This is a very common reason for male behavior in a situation where a man does not pick up the phone after an argument. It is easiest to put on the mask of "victim" and arrange a full play, showing that he is so good and at the same time unhappy and offended.
Of course, you should not push back to the background and the fact that he is simply afraid of talking to you or simply does not know what to say especially if he consciously understands that the whole fault of your quarrel lies precisely on him. Men are hysterical, no less women for us. And in a situation where they are really stymied, it is very difficult for them to make any decision in your or their own favor, let alone surrender their positions and ask for forgiveness directly.
If your quarrel is not so strong and you are both equally guilty of having happened, it's not that he does not pick up the phone. Then just stop him constantly calling and boring it. Just go to the bottom, at least for a few days. In this case, it is possible that after a certain time he will call you himself, but if he does not do this, you will have more chances that he will want to talk and will pick up the phone. Give him just time, so that he would calm down and rationalize everything and think it over. When a man cools down after a quarrel and, having thought everything over, calms down, then you have a better chance of reconciliation. Not when do not call a man, under the hot hand - this is not going to lead to anything good. A man, during emotional excitement, is not at all capable of rational thinking and quietly listening to you, having made some right decision. So to get from him, that he would pick up the phone does not make any sense. Only time can solve everything.
When you're 100% sure that your fault lies in you, then that's all it says. After all, touching a man for a living, for us women, it is very easy and thus, to the depths to hurt his feelings and at the same time, break all the illusions of ideality. In this situation, I think that you can not do with one phone call. Here, if this person is really dear to you, it is necessary, directly, to take quick and prompt action, to make amends for him. The best way is, as it will not sound strange for you, to leave your phone alone and just come to it yourself. Believe me, a frank and properly constructed conversation between you and the eye can change a lot. In the first place, you can put all the dots over the "and", solving this problem that has arisen between you. And secondly, you will cease to constantly torment yourself with guesses and negative thoughts that maybe he will not want to see you again and your relationship has come to an end. And finally, thirdly, you simply simply stop torturing yourself with a sense of guilt, for having offended him. So, if you decided to apply an attempt at reconciliation, do not put it off in a long box, do not torture yourself, not it, just show how much you really care about it and it's expensive. Do not be afraid to show that you are sincerely repentant. Know, he will certainly appreciate it.
And, as, at last, I want to say. Sometimes we ourselves make so many mistakes, thereby pushing away people who are dear to us, and then, as a rule, we regret it. It's like in the saying: "What we have - we do not store, but lose crying". So, appreciate the one you care about. And if the man does not pick up the phone after the quarrel, use the usual text message, sending him simple, but at the same time magic words: "I love you, forgive me !!!".