It is not surprising that the girls think about this, because the fact that the rich family takes a poor daughter-in-law depends on the "weather" in the house and the relationship with her beloved. In order to predict how a girl will accept a family, you need to know exactly how people have achieved their status, since this has a significant effect on attitudes toward people who have less money.
So, maybe the parents of your beloved person have reached their position in society and wealth themselves. In this case, most likely, they will never oppress and insult the poor daughter-in-law. On the contrary, such a family always tries to support and help. But, they also make sure that the wife of their son herself wants something. Just keep their daughter-in-law, they never will. The fact is that your boyfriend's parents themselves went to the goal. Once they were just like you and they know that there's nothing to judge a poor girl. Their parents could not give them a luxurious life, but they still love them, because happiness is not in money. Therefore, they will never condemn your family, they will accept and help. The fact that you are not rich, is not at all important in their scale of values, according to which they determine whether they like a person. Such a family will accept your position and will not condemn your parents for simple clothes or the situation in the apartment. So do not worry too much. Moreover, they after all raised a son who could fall in love with a poor girl, not paying attention to such tinsel as brands, money and branded clothes. Now, most importantly, do not disappoint them. If you show that money is important to you, the guy's parents will be disappointed. Such people do not mind sharing what they have, but not with those who just want to live at their expense. This is right, it's not for nothing that this family has worked hard all my life, but now someone just wants to comfortably and comfortably exist, without making any effort. No, they do not exactly want a lazy and mercantile daughter-in-law. Therefore, they will oppose your marriage. But, here if you show that you do not care at all, how rich the family of your beloved, and, most importantly, you are happy with your life and do not focus on money, everything will be different. Just remember that you have to show initiative and show that you want something on your own. Then the family will not only accept you, but will also help. But do not start using their kindness. People who themselves, so to speak, came out of the people, very clearly feel where the truth is, and where lies and are perfectly able to bring down the arrogance. Therefore, if you begin to be impudent, they will quickly show you the place. Otherwise, you will become a native person for whom they will never regret anything.
But, how to act in the case when your boyfriend's family has its condition is not the first generation and has grown accustomed to look down on those who are poorer. In that case, you, of course, will be much more difficult. But, nevertheless, do not give up and belittle yourself in their eyes. Remember always that you though poor, but with an ambition. So do not be ashamed of your social status and your family. And also do not let yourself be humiliated. Maybe the guy's parents are just checking to see if you fit him and can get used to the higher circles of society. Also, they want to know if you want to just cash in on their condition. Be patient, but do not allow yourself to criticize, if there is no reason. In addition, in such families there is always a very good upbringing. They do not tolerate girls from the street, which will disgrace their family. If you decided to become a part of such a family, you must turn into a real lady. Even if you are not used to and do not know how to be like that.
It is necessary to learn, otherwise the parents of a loved one will never understand and accept you. Anyway, there should be no war in the family. Remember that these people, whatever they are, are the most dear and dear to your boyfriend. Therefore, if you conflict with each other, your young man will begin to worry about it. But you do not want to bring him pain and suffering. That's why, try to be what they want you to be. But, if you understand that their demands go beyond the accepted etiquette, values and morals, you do not need to be silent either. In the end, you came to their family not as a servant, but as a full-fledged person, whom no one should poke. Try to remember this and do not allow yourself to be humiliated, and, especially, your family. Remember that people who abandon their parents, certainly will not cause respect to never and no one.
If you understand that the relationship between you and the boy's family does not add up, it's best to reduce communication to a minimum. Discuss this with your young man. Most likely, he will understand and support you. The main thing is that everything does not look as if you are trying to alienate him from the family and set up against his parents. Let him communicate with them, he loves and supports, but does not allow to talk about you bad. Also, do not take gifts from the parents of the guy or any help. If you do, then most likely they will make you feel obligated to them. Therefore, try to do everything yourself and do not let them interfere with your life. If people judge others only by the amount of cash in their wallet, they can not arouse respect from a normal person. Therefore, do not be equal to the opinions of such individuals.
Just ignore them and try to avoid conflicts. Your boyfriend should never think that you are the one to blame for the conflict, and now you are ruining his relationship with his parents. Be discreet and never discuss it. Then the guy himself will understand who is right and who is not. But, in any case, no matter how his parents treat you, always remember that the most important relationship is the relationship between you and your loved one. And everything else is not so important.