Everyone has his own choice criteria, including the choice of a partner in life. Someone selects a suitable man for himself the size of his bank account, and someone on the zodiac sign. There are those who have no idea about the difference between the fire and water signs of the zodiac, and there are those who diligently follow the latest news from the "star front". In practice, it often turns out that couples consisting of people who are not compatible with the horoscope can be together, and even can be happy, but their relationship is likely to not last. The phrase "and they lived happily ever after until the end of their days" to such couples is rarely applicable. Sooner or later, in such relationships, problems begin that do not lead to anything good.
If there is a problem, then there is a solution that can help to avoid the helper. We offer several recommendations of astrologers, how to behave, if you are not compatible with your partner on a horoscope.
Study your partner
The first thing that astrologers recommend in this situation is the need to take into account your astrological incompatibility, and try to learn how to bypass sharp corners. To do this, we will have to study the features of the sign of the zodiac of our partner in the most serious way.
Decide on priorities
Any relationship requires strength, from each partner. One has to accept that his partner prefers to listen to heavy music instead of symphonic music, while others are forced to go to far greater sacrifices. But be that as it may, everyone chooses for himself what is more important for him, to keep the relationship, with some effort, or think only about it, paying no attention to others.
If it turns out that for you the relationship will be important non-essential ambitions, you will have to adapt in some way to your partner. After all, to one degree or another, people who are in a relationship, willingly or unwillingly, adjust themselves to each other. Simply, some people do it subconsciously, while others just have to get stuck.
All of us are not without shortcomings, but it's one thing when a person does something that is not very understandable and pleasant to his partner because of his own character, or because of the sign of the zodiac under which he or she was born, and quite another when he or she deliberately tries to annoy his partner .
It is not always possible for a woman to perceive this or that situation in the same way as her husband, especially if she is born under the familiar elements of fire, and he is under the sign relating to the elements of water. After all, as any astrologer of astrology tells you, Fire and Air are still able to find a common language, whereas Water and Fire are all incompatible.
The moral of everything stated above is that there is nothing impossible, the main thing is a mutual desire and the desire to be together.
Do not forget
So, finding out what exactly can irritate your partner, it's not superfluous to find out what he likes. At the beginning of the relationship, almost everything is bilingual, they are hovering in the clouds, not noticing the small shortcomings that spoil relations to everyone else. But, sooner or later they will be closer to the ground. The result, and possibly the side effect of landing, is that the relations require great joint efforts.
Efforts will consist in the fact that you will begin to consciously carry out actions that not only will please your partner, but will also serve as the foundation on which your relations will be built further.
Know how to listen and talk
Not one, and unfortunately not two couples broke up on the basis of what the partners could not or just did not want to hear each other. Very frequent occurs because people who are not compatible with the signs of the zodiac, completely differently perceive and present information.
What to say here, learn to listen to each other, and neobizhaytes, if your partner, half the conversation switches to another topic. Just consider the difference in temperature and perception. Do not be silent if you are uncomfortable, just better delicately later to present information that one or another act is unpleasant. Over time, both of you will learn to take into account the characteristics of the nature of a friend.
Analyze
By the way, it often happens that even people born under one sign of the zodiac do not always find a common language. But there are reasons and explanation for everything. Simply, among other things, take into account the year of birth of each partner, as well as the time, number and many other factors that accompanied the moment of birth. How else? No one promised that everything would be easy! But, such a careful study of the issue will help, even non-compatible partners become a single whole!