But sometimes it happens that our "goat" finds himself a friend "goat" on the side. This, of course, can not suit us. What to do in this case with her husband, this is a separate issue, and I think you can do it yourself, but how to treat your husband's mistress? At first glance, everything is simple, to burn on the spot, but, firstly, it is against the law, and, secondly, ineffective. Therefore, I can suggest several options for how to treat, how to behave and what to do with the mistress of her husband, so that henceforth no such problems arise. And it does not matter with this husband or with another.
First of all, let's say right away that the Swedish family will not be friends and live. This can be considered unacceptable, so we consider the situation when we do not know the mistress of her husband (ie, it's not your friend or God forbid best friend) is an abstract woman. So, let's see how it relates to the mistress and what to do in order to avoid such situations from now on.
This is our enemy! Destroy it!
Hatred of the opponent, this is the first and probably the most natural feeling. It probably arises first, after we learn that the husband has a mistress. And if the husband still sometimes manages to forgive, then razluchnitsu never! Immediately after the arrival of a sharp antipathy, there is a desire to hit your mistress, something heavy and better with a fatal outcome! This desire must be suppressed, in fact, it is necessary to be able to destroy this woman in the eyes of her husband, it is necessary to brightly present to him her shortcomings, and the fact that she is absolutely not a pair. In this situation, as they say, "in war, as in war" everything can go to play, friends, colleagues, relatives, the main thing is to drop it in the husband's wings and treat it accordingly.
Analyze this! Learn from the mistakes!
As it is not regrettable to admit, but sometimes the fact of the appearance of a mistress is a mistake of our behavior and the result of our shortcomings. A strong woman can always admit to herself, in her shortcomings. In this case, treat your mistress as a test mouse or as an experiment. Analyze the situation and its strengths, than she was able to attract her husband, what you could learn from her. In general, take lessons and do not repeat old mistakes, and then your life will get better!
Cold and contempt like an iceberg!
The tactics of this attitude to the mistress is complicated, it is not a desperate dislike, but a cold understanding of one's strength. And the fact that you are better in all respects! This of course requires you to be 100% sure in yourself, at this ratio you suppress your opponent morally, simply by not noticing it, but at the same time giving your husband to understand that you are incommensurably better. And if you really prove to be better, then the man himself will understand his mistakes and crawl with apologies on his knees, but I repeat, you must clearly calculate your strength and understand your capabilities. After all, an error with this tactic can lead to fatal consequences! But in the case of the success of such an attitude, you will grow strongly in your eyes and the eyes of your husband.
Here are some examples of attitudes and behavior with the mistress of her husband. They can be freely combined, add something of their own, according to taste and circumstances. The main thing is to clearly understand what you want to achieve.
In the end, I want to add that, no matter how great dislike for the mistress, she must be grateful that she opened your eyes to the shortcomings of her husband. And after you "get it", you have to decide what to do next with your husband and where your relationship goes. So, I want to wish you great spiritual strength, dear women.