Or maybe this is love?
Perhaps your unreasonable joy at the sight of the stranger is a consequence of the fact that you simply feel for a person more than friendly feelings. You can not admit it to yourself, but your emotions give you away. Therefore, if you understand that parting your friend is a joyful message for you, analyze your thoughts. Do not be ashamed and feel guilty. You did not try to upset these relations. On the contrary, you behaved like a true friend and did not admit to feelings even to yourself. Remember that there is nothing terrible in this love. When people of opposite sex are very close, it is quite possible to grow into love. So, instead of punishing yourself for bitchiness, it's better to take a closer look at your friend. Perhaps, he himself experiences you tremulous feelings, just afraid to admit, because he does not want to ruin your friendship. In any case, never blame yourself for stuttering and insensitivity. You've always behaved like a real friend, while the guy was with another girl. Now it's time to think about yourself.
It's not a couple
The joy of parting with a loved one can be caused by the fact that you always believed that this girl does not suit him and subconsciously wanted their union to collapse. In this case, too, you can not consider yourself a bad person. Delov is that lovers tend to idealize their object of sighing. They do not see many of its disadvantages and do not notice that a person can simply be not so good as they think. Quite possibly, you are so happy because of the separation, because you always knew who the friend's passion is in reality, but could not tell him, because he simply could not understand you in a state of love. But in your heart, you always wanted this relationship to end. And now, when finally their relationship is over, you can not hold back joy, because a close person will no longer suffer. In this situation, you can only advise one: do not be too happy at first. But if a young man himself says that he is glad to part because he understood and realized everything, then you can not hide your feelings. But in the case when you see that he is still very much going through, blossom your happiness and support him. Over time, your friend will gradually come to the correct conclusions and then you will be able to express your true attitude to both the parting and his ex-girlfriend. In the meantime, just try to stay close and not let him get depressed. Remember that in these cases, people need support. So do not say something to him in style: "I told you so." Just stay for him a true friend and quietly rejoice for him and for the fact that in his life a new period will begin that will be much better than the previous one.
I'm jealous of you
Another reason why we can rejoice in the separation of a friend is a banal jealousy. And it's not about love in vain, it's about friendly jealousy. Especially often this happens in those cases when people were friends for a long time, spent a lot of time together, and then a woman appeared in a friend's life, which became more important to him than you. In this situation, many girls are beginning to be terribly jealous of friends. They are angry because their relationship has ceased to be the same as before and in the heart of a dream that the friend again belonged only to them. In such a situation, the reason for joy is quite clear. If you feel that this is your situation, it will be worth considering that you can not tie people to yourself. Of course, you love a friend and want to be with him, but not without reason they say that love is unselfish. Therefore, do not wish your friend to be alone, and that's exactly what is happening. You want a person to be with you only, but you do not want to see a photo. Accordingly, you want your friend to never have a personal happiness. Such a manifestation of selfishness is not a good act from your side. But he is not so scary as to blame and torment himself. Just try to learn to expand your zone of comfort and communicate with other people, apart from your close friend. In time, you will see that you are no longer so offended because he spends time with others. In addition, you expand your circle of acquaintances and learn a lot of new things. And still, close people well feel our emotions. Therefore it is quite possible that your friend felt this your jealousy, he became uncomfortable, so he alienated you. So, having learned that your friend has grown up with a loved one, instead of rejoicing, think over what he feels right now, what he's going through. If you approach the situation from this side, you will soon realize that there are no reasons for joy and will cease to react to the current situation in this way. And next time, when the guy starts dating a new girl, instead of revealing hidden jealousy and aggression in her direction, try to sincerely support your friend and you will see that he will communicate with you much more often, and also will cease to be afraid of superfluous demonstration to your eyes with his girlfriend.
Envy is a bad feeling
And the last reason for the joy that is worth talking about is envy. Unfortunately, it may be that you do not stick life, and you just envy your friend. Of course, in such a bad feeling it's hard to acknowledge yourself, but if you do not find another explanation for your joy, think it over with it. And if this is true, you need to immediately rethink your life and attitude to it. If you test a feeling of envy, sooner or later a friend will understand this, and your attitudes will cool. Therefore, you need to find your own spiritual balance and feel yourself. In this situation, your joy really is the indicator of your own spiritual problems. But do not get upset and desperate. You just need to find your life's meaning, to find new interests, in general, to do everything possible so that the joyful life of other people does not cause you a feeling of anger, resentment, envy and irritation. Believe me, in this life there are a lot of interesting activities, new acquaintances, feelings and emotions, which are not inferior to the so-called personal happiness. And yet, when you stop thinking, experiencing and envying, happiness will necessarily come. After all, we always get what we want when we stop worrying and torturing ourselves.