Each person is attractive in his own way. And only a small part of the attractiveness is enough to attract attention, but not enough to deeply understand the inner world of the individual. After all, the most valuable thing for a family relationship is his character, his mind and his values. In recent years, not so many people think about the moral side of relationships - as the basis for a solid and prosperous family. It remains only to look. And it is very important to remember that there is no pathological loneliness, you just need to listen to yourself and understand why there are no relationships with men? We will consider some of them:
- If the relationship does not add up, then you too value your relationship with a man, idealize it. You dissolve in your companion, sacrifice yourself. As a result, a man quickly loses interest in you.
- You, initially draw the wrong scenario of relationships, your thoughts and phrases: it's not for me, I'm not good enough for him, I have too full legs, I'm not stylish. With such rigid affirmations of the negative, you will always remain in the shadows.
- Perhaps you are behaving too restrained, do not allow it to your inner world. It may seem to him that you are indifferent to him. A stereotype of repulsive behavior is created.
- Unconscious copying of their parents. Maybe they themselves without knowing it, learned the principles of communication with a man as your mother did and did, surrounded with close men or with her father.
- It is easy and safe to feel with those men who do not show interest to you. Perhaps you are afraid that the relationship will not last long or break quickly enough.
- A woman hides her potential, dignity and talents. Hiding your talents from men, you, in the end, hide them from yourself and as a result you can lose them.
- A woman must obey a man. This means being content with a smaller share of love and attention than you deserve.
- Sometimes men are afraid of beautiful women - if a man internally is not sure of himself: this, cute is not for me. And you think that you are denied. And you were very highly appreciated, and that's why they were just frightened.
- The biggest mistake of a woman is when we respond with love and tenderness to an unjustifiably bad attitude towards them. We surround with the warmth of those men who insult our feelings to show them that women love them as they really are, without a mask.
- Every woman wants a man to fulfill all her desires, follow only her decisions - and take full responsibility only for herself. As a result, remember the fairy tale about "The Fisherman and the Fish" and the old woman, who is sitting with a broken trough ...
Remember, a person is not born for loneliness. Any relationship can and should be learned. Do not be afraid to show that you like many men, that they love you and you are desired. Be a welcome prize for men. Wish and think that men want you to like and make a romance with you, friendship. And it does not matter, is it really so. If you think that many men love you - then, in a short time you will have a crowd of fans. And soon enough the phrase: "I do not add up with men" - will not be relevant for you.